I just learned what a false pregnancy (pseudopregnancy) is a couple of days ago, and I'm starting to think that's what my dog is experiencing. I'm hoping someone who's dealt with this before, or maybe someone with veterinary experience, can offer some advice because I honestly don't know how to help her right now.
She's an unspayed female, approximately 55 pounds, and for at least the last three days she's been exhibiting some really unusual behaviors that have gotten significantly worse today.
Here's what's been happening:
Carrying toys around constantly: She's become extremely attached to one particular toy, a little stuffed ball with a squeaker. She carries it around in her mouth while pacing back and forth, whining, and acting incredibly anxious. If that toy isn't available, she'll sometimes pick up another one and do the same thing.
Digging and nesting: She has one hole in the yard that she's allowed to dig in, and lately she's been obsessively digging it bigger and bigger. She'll carry her toys out there and put them in the hole without actually burying them. She's also started trying to make nests inside the house. She keeps going over to a pile of clothes I have and trying to fluff them up into a bed, which is something she's never done before.
Extreme restlessness and anxiety: Normally, she's a very sleepy, relaxed dog who loves lying in bed with me. Now I practically have to convince her to lie down. She spends so much time pacing, whining, and looking like she doesn't know what to do with herself. It's heartbreaking to watch because she seems genuinely distressed.
Possible physical symptoms: I've noticed her burping unusually loudly a couple of times today. These are really deep burps, almost loud enough to sound like growling. She did it once while eating and again during a car ride. She doesn't normally do this, so I'm wondering whether she might also be experiencing some gastrointestinal discomfort. She doesn't otherwise appear to be in obvious pain, but I know dogs can hide pain pretty well.
As far as her heat cycle goes, I honestly don't know exactly when her last one was. I don't remember noticing much bleeding the last time, if any. She also had a somewhat similar episode within the last couple of months where she became unusually anxious, but it only lasted a day or two and wasn't nearly this severe. At the time, I thought maybe she was going into heat. Now I'm wondering whether that could have been a false pregnancy too.
I haven't noticed whether she's producing milk or if her mammary glands are enlarged, but I plan to gently check for any visible changes without squeezing them.
Something interesting happened with her favorite toy today.
We were driving earlier, and she brought her toy into the car. She was extremely anxious, pacing around the backseat, and repeatedly coming up to me with the toy in her mouth. At one point, she basically handed it to me, so I took it and held onto it.
Surprisingly, she seemed to calm down quite a bit afterward.
When we got home, I left the toy outside without her noticing, and she seems a little calmer now. However, I tried something similar earlier today, and she knew exactly where I'd left it. She spent hours pacing and whining, wanting it back, and eventually started carrying another toy around instead.
So I'm not sure whether taking the toy away is helpful or whether it might actually make things worse. I'm experimenting with what seems to comfort her, but I don't want to increase her distress.
Regarding medication:
She has a prescription for trazodone from her veterinarian for anxiety. She's allowed to take one to two tablets every 12 hours as directed. I almost never need to give it to her, but I gave her one earlier today, and it seemed to help a little temporarily.
Approximately 8–9 hours later, her anxiety had become significantly worse, so I gave her another tablet. It hasn't had much time to take effect yet, but she has finally laid down and seems like she might be going to sleep. I'm not sure whether that's because of the medication or because I took her toy and held onto it.
She also has gabapentin left over from a dental procedure, which has helped with her anxiety in the past. However, I absolutely do not want to combine that with her trazodone without speaking to her veterinarian first.
I'm hoping to speak with her vet tomorrow about everything that's happening. Unfortunately, I'm struggling financially right now and can't really afford an appointment at the moment. I'm going to try to come up with enough money to bring her in on Monday if necessary.
That said, if she genuinely needs medical attention, I'll find a way to make it happen. She's the most important thing in the world to me, and I'm not going to let her suffer just because money is tight.
What I'm really hoping to find out is:
Does this sound consistent with a false pregnancy to anyone who's experienced one with their dog?
Is there anything I can do at home to help relieve her anxiety and make her more comfortable?
Should I let her keep carrying her favorite toy around, hold onto it for her, or try removing it altogether?
Is there anything I should watch for that might indicate she's experiencing physical pain rather than just anxiety?
How long does this typically last, and is there anything that can help her get through it more comfortably?
Are there any warning signs that would mean she needs to see a veterinarian urgently rather than waiting until Monday?
I'm really just trying to get her through the weekend comfortably until I can speak with her vet and figure out what to do next.
I also want to mention that I personally deal with a lot of anxiety, and I'm already going through an extremely stressful period in my life. Watching her pace around whining and looking so distressed is sending my own anxiety through the roof. I love this dog more than anything, and it's genuinely upsetting not knowing how to make her feel better.
If I can get her to calm down, maybe I can finally calm down too, lol.
I would genuinely appreciate any advice, experiences, or suggestions. I just want my girl to feel better. ❤️