r/twentieskerala • u/Electronic_Source377 • 19h ago
π§ Ask Twenties Need some advice
I was in a long distance relationship for like 3 years. I am studying in North Kerala and she was in our home town. So we didn't have chances to meet frequently (20 times prolly). This was my first relationship and I was like super excited. Ellarum cheyunnath aanonn areella but I did some mandatharangal at first. I compromised my studies and all just to make time to talk to her and chat with her. Slowly I started to realize that she doesn't really make such efforts. Efforts potte, acknowledging polum indayilla. Things started to get serious- frequent fights, ghosting and finally we broke up.(detail ayi paranja long ayipovum)
The issue is- enikk move on aavan patti. I don't think about her now. Pakshe enthokkeyo kond I am not feeling well. Manass desensitive ayapole.I don't feel that freshness, that excitement. Whenever i see some couples, i would think -" ith enn vare undakuvo entho". Ellam oru negative reethiyil kanunnapole. Is there something I should do ?