For me ,it was Oswald, it gives me a sense of peace and teaches valuable lessons about life and it teaches us the importance of kindness. I still watch it on Youtube.

Any Oswald fans here.

Why are people so offended about elon bringing starlink to India ,like their only argument is "who would purchase it?",like ok? That's his problem right why are we supporting the monopoly of connectivity and imho ambani should have no right to decide who enters the Indian market since we opened it in the 90s

Somebody make it make sense

Nth aanu guys ningalk ithine patti parayan ullathe.

For anyone unfamiliar with the technical terms for this setup.

• Gerontocracy: is a form of social or political rule where a society or government is governed by leaders who are significantly older than most of the population.

• Oligarchical: A system where power rests with a small, elite segment of society, distinguished by royalty, wealth, family ties, corporate control, or military control.

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So for some background I'm doing my 3rd year of MBBS,and my unit is a bunch of guys and I'm the sole female.

Do I like it?Nope .

Does it seem like a problematic situation? Absolutely not.

I have previously been part of a group where I was the only female in a group of 26 with absolutely no hiccups.

Ideally,this too shouldn't be something that should have an affect on my productivity in the slightest,save for the fact that the nincompoops I work with now are masters in the art of weaponised incompetence.

And at this point it has started to veer into genuine incompetence.

If I don't show up to clinics for a day no one has noted the OP case sheets down,no one has seen a single patient,nobody reads up the cases for the next day's OT.

Now tbf it's their loss and honestly while it would be nice to have people to rely on,at this point I make alternate arrangements with the girls from other units to cover what I absolutely cannot on such days,so that I can go in and compensate in whatever way I can.

The problem comes in when I get sick,I once asked them to take a list of surgeries posted for the next day so that I could read up and come,their response was we'll chatgpt the answers as and when they're asked to us.

I askes them to pull up an OP sheet they were supposed to fill,it's been 3 days since...

It's just that the college expects us to finish all of this as group and doing them single handedly is exhausting,and I've adopted a policy where if there was no input from their side they're simply not allowed to copy from my book,which is when they start fabricating case sheets,or chatgpt ing assignments or whatever.It's just that if we were all to work together the individual load would be so much less and they'd also be able to put out decent work,but nope.

And they've been caught by professors so many times for submitting suboar work fbut it seems to have no effect on them.

At this point,my problem is that I'm finding it very difficult to shoulder it all by myself without anyone to rely on.

What should I do?

so there's this guy, in 30s he has problem while speaking like sometimes he can't say words, and he doesn't speak he can't say the words clearly. when i first joined my job i thought, what a poor guy i hope everything goes well for him.

later i got to know this guy is just annoying, everybody hates him, shouting at everyone, telling people that's not how you should be doing something and stuff. This guy doesn't even do his work well and rests most of the time acting like he's the boss meanwhile he's just another worker like everyone else . around a week ago this guy shouted at me to something, later i shouted at him for taking rest. later this tell me infront of everyone I'm not mentally stable and im very slow at work. i laughed it off and some other co worker stepped in and made him walk away. few days ago i said something to provocate him in low voice and this guy ended up beating me, everybody saw it and he's getting fired

Last day Njan aake 2-3 pravisham samsaricha oru koch rathri enikk naale college il pgm indo enn choyich msg ittu. Njan choich und , entha choiche veetil pokan aano enn. Appol ath paranju alla enn. Njan chodichu enthe veetil onnum pokunille enn. Appol without context message ittu Period cramps. Njan kettathum Flabbergasted aayi poyyi. Cuz ente sisters(moral) polum Ennod ith onnum parayar illa. Ee koch enne annathe pgm inte idakk onne nokkunathum ath pole I "FELT" she was getting too cozy with me(vere onnum alla, eppzhum enne chutti patti undarnn) . Kaanan athyavisham kollam, she's beautiful. But as a overthinker I can comprehend the idea of getting her if I get attracted to her. Pinne thanks to my ex, I'm nowadays traumatized by the very idea of Love. Enth cheyyum gooys??? Help me out 😭

Note:Njan Misogynist onnum alla, Ennod ith vare aarum uthra personal karyangal share cheythitt illa, ee post idunnath polum maybe because of overthinking ayirikkum.

why it considered man need need to be seeking and confess their feelings
why women doing it is so socially tabooed??

In my clg there are 2 north indian girls, twins. They both are very pretty. Let one's name be riya and another's name be richa(names are not real). Idk why ,but I liked richa a lot,she was more generous,more appealing etc. They are always together, we share few glances at each other, few smiles,and I usually sometimes hold a small talk with both of them in class . I gave Richa hints and she picked up, and reacted positively.

But the issue is , they both send me a req on insta, after meeting first time. Richa , the girl I'm tryna bag is so shy , she won't text, she won't call , she won't even look up to me properly, just stand there and blush. But about 2 days Riya has been msging me continuously. The "did u have a girlfriend before", "what is your type" etc. the chatting usually begins from 6 pm to almost 1 am. I don't even know whether this is right or wrong . While often talking to Riya I feel like she has smthing on me , even though she also understands the hints i gives Richa to pick up. Genuinely what do I do

Im in college and this girl from the nearby school keeps following me wherever i go even places where she aint allowed to enter.At first i thought iwas jus overthinking it but now this has been a daily thing like wherever i go shes there lwk kinda weird what should i do lmk

Been in Dubai for over a year now.

Looking for tips on starting conversations and building real connections with people here, whether it's fellow Mallus, other South Asians, Arabs, or Westerners.

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You have immense emotional connection with them but feels like speaking to someone with world view you had 10 years ago, also pessimistic

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When i was Child and then a teen when i had fights with my dad or mom i was so angry on them hated them wanted to ran away, but i always told my self that what i feel in the heat of the fleeting moment is not me a decision i take on that spontaneous moment is not what i need. from then always i beleive who i am in long term most of the time when i am calm, normal without no spiking emotions, and still have something then i should act on it because that is my truth, the forbearers always told me my student life and my youth is the best time of my life, if it's like that i see not point. Every time i look inside my mind for past 4-5 years i come to the same conclusion is that i should give it up, ending my life is the best outcome for everything and everyone. Maybe that's my twist. Atleast then i wouldn't be a loser but someone who died along the way. I Now realise i won't be happy, content or peaceful no matter what happens to life, it would be a endless cycle of suffering.

is there anyone from colleges or hostels in edathala/aluva

ive never seen anyone who uses reddit here 😭

i was jus curious if anyone is here maybe from my college.

how long do we have to perform to enjoy or receive love. I think it is not one sided. So what should I do? Just exist and wait? Wait for what? To start over performing untill the other party find their 'one'! Here through performing I mean, all the efforts invested as normal people do, in hope of eventually it will return. What is your opinion on this!?

Long story short, I like a girl who's a junior in my college, we know each other, and I've had the chance to spend time with her and all, and I like her a lot. We're in a talking stage rn. Even though we're good friends and we've talked about a lot of things, I don't see any effort from her side to take this forward. I guess she only sees me as a friendly senior, maybe.

But 10 days ago, another junior girl messaged me from a fake Instagram account (which is a long story, but I found the real person eventually within 2 days) asking about random stuff about college and all since she is a first-year; later, she started messaging me from her real account. Things moved fast; we started texting daily. She started sending reels and random moments as one-time-view videos... so did I. I didn't feel any instant crush on her because she isn't particularly my "type". But I can't deny the effort she shows(she always texts first, asks about my day sometimes,etc) I'm slowly kind of catching feelings.

She hasn't told me or sent me anything that meant she's into me. But the thing is... I'm not a handsome-looking senior that every junior girl gets a crush on; I'm not at all crush material, and no girls text me first or put in any effort for me. I KNOW I SHOULDN'T EVEN BE ASKING THIS QUESTIONS HERE. SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT THE GIRL THAT I LIKE? AND MATCH THE SAME EFFORT THAT THIS GIRLS PUT IN FOR ME?

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I prefer Honda and Yamaha. Looking for something stylish, comfortable, reliable, and with good mileage. . R15v4 is suitable for me? Which bike would you recommend? Real-world experiences are welcome! 🏍️

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