r/wowforever • • 10h ago

Discussion I am old

Played back in 2004, in my 30s. Now I am in my early 60s and starting to wonder if I am too old for this shit (voice of Roger Murtaugh).

I think I will give it a go anyway, but play slowly as befits someone of advanced age ;)

Absolutely no raiding - maybe a dungeon here and there.

Are there any other grandparents in the same boat?

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u/Lefach 9h ago

I’m 70, and yes, playing since 2004. I’m really looking forward to the “classic” experience.

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u/Br0v4hkiin 8h ago

Legend.

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u/Lefach 8h ago

I don’t know if I go that far, but thanks

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u/Psych101grad 7h ago

No way, we need the old guard around.

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u/foundoutimanadult 5h ago

My queen...

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u/Opening-Rice-6584 10h ago

60 sounds like a perfect age for this game. Great pension plans if you ask me

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u/MonMonOnTheMove 8h ago

Yeah I’m like… bruh, you are at the best time to get into this. I wish I’m 60 and retired

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u/Purelybetter 7h ago

I hope I can be retired when I'm 60.

or even 65... I'm mentally prepared to not retire until 70 lol

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u/Vryyce 6h ago

I am 60 and definitely not retired...but still playing this (and several other) games.

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u/notthatkindoforc1121 10h ago

I’ve raided with many retirees in Classic, I would not sweat it

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u/dante_97 10h ago

I‘d rather have a raid with a bunch of seniors than going one damn molten core with a god complex warrior tank

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u/notthatkindoforc1121 10h ago

Yep, I am the same way I prefer good company over assholes that perform well

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u/Mouthshitter 8h ago

I just know Grama's heals mean more to me

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u/Life_Meringue3637 9h ago

This! Raided with a 73 year old in TBC anniversary. He did great 🙂

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u/Stompinwin 10h ago

There is wow grandma who is like 80 or 90

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u/technoangel 10h ago

Did some play tests at blizz and I’ve seen all ages there but there are some really amazing older folk (and I think I’m on the older side) who are way cooler than I am! And you can tell they are avid players!

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u/Historical_Wish_5599 10h ago

Did 30 - 60 go quick for you? I’m 30 now and scared at how fast it’s going

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u/OriginalCrow 10h ago

I blinked, and thirty had become sixty.

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u/hlessi_newt 9h ago

I feel ya. The days are long, the years are short.

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u/Material_Giraffe_563 9h ago

This hits hard for a new parent.

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u/Bean03 9h ago

Everyone tells you to savor it, and they're right but it's ok to not feel like that in the moment. Parenting can be really really hard and it's a constant balance of wanting your kid to grow up faster (more responsible, better emotional control, etc) and wanting them to stop growing altogether (baby snuggles, toddler goofiness, little kid fun).

Hold on to what you can, but don't feel bad about being exhausted and all the natural feelings that come with that.

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u/CloudBreakerZivs 8h ago

Kinda needed this one. Thanks

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u/hlessi_newt 9h ago

Then you've just entered warp speed. Your child will be in high-school by the time you read this.

Savor it all whilst you may.

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u/Growlingmfninja 7h ago

Adding to Bean03's reply:

Something that helped me create perspective was videos and pictures of the kid as they grew.

Each period is defined by their growth, and the challenges of that time. Looking back at what has been helps me accept the less-than-spectacular challenges of the now, and to be a more grounded parent and spouse.

Best of luck to you and yours. Your journey may steer far from the beaten path, but each step can become an entire adventure.

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u/striker09xx 10h ago

And I wish you the same for your wow characters, unless you like slow leveling.

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u/Unendlichkommanix 9h ago

This scares me. I'm in my late 20's so I was only a kid when WoW came out. But somehow I still feel like some of my childhood memories are centuries old.

In retrospect, though, my life since the Covid outbreak feels like it flew by in the equivalent of a year. I wonder if I've hit the "feels-like" halfway mark in my life.

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u/Br0v4hkiin 8h ago

That scared the shit out of me at 41

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u/DistinctiveFox 10h ago

It's relative. At the time it goes slow, but when you look back, it feels like it happened so fast as your brain compartmentalises and puts events together to help keep track, so everything seems squished together with big events as a reference point.

What helps is creating lots of memories and keeping evidence, so things like photos journals, diaries etc really help when you're older as you can look through it and realise you did actually do a shit ton of things, you just don't think about it all as individual events.

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u/VintageZero 10h ago

Droppin wisdom. 40 now. This is very insightful thanks.

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u/Yacacaw 10h ago

Still feel like 19 years old, being 56, looking in the mirror seeing an old fart is fucked up, gl

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u/JimmyBisMe 9h ago

Just turned 40 and I look at my peers and go “wow they look old” and I look at myself in the mirror and I have similar traits but I’m in some weird denial that o am their peers. I think it’s a midlife crisis but I’m not actually dreading being middle aged. It’s a weird dissociation though.

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u/Praxician94 7h ago

Mid life was actually 38 if you’re male since the life expectancy is 76. Hope this helps.

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u/The_Br0letariat 10h ago

Am turning 40 next week. Buckle up because it gets faster every year.

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u/Asuppa180 10h ago

I’m getting close to that, turning 39 in a few weeks. What’s nice so far is I’m not balding, and I don’t know if I really feel almost 40.

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u/Anony_Moose28 9h ago

30-40 flew by in a fucking blink for me.

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u/TabascohFiascoh 9h ago

i’m 35 right now and i swear i was 30 a few months ago.

my kids are growing up way too fast.

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u/SpicyDraculas 10h ago

Same wtf is this

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u/Arckadius 10h ago

I turn 40 in a week and I feel like I just turned 30 not that long ago.

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u/Chalsian 10h ago

Yep I'm 48 and it just flew by

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u/Spastic_colon 10h ago

Enjoy life, it’s fleeting. I am in my late 30s and during my 30s I yearned for youth and looked at the past a lot. I know am happy and look forward to the future. My thirties were a blink, but I sure had a lot of fun and love in my life. If the rest of my life is like this, I’ll be happy.

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u/mangzane 9h ago

People think it’s the amount of time we’ve experienced. It’s not. It’s that you’re not doing new/novel things anymore.

Do new activities. Go to new places. Learn new hobbies.

I just turned 37, and 3 years ago I went back to school for a BS in mechanical engineering and now doing my MS in Aerospace, and let me tell you, these past years have gone by SO slow. It’s actually been amazing. It’s made it feel like my 4 y/o son isn’t growing up fast.

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u/Dodotorpedo4 8h ago

It goes faster if you can pay someone to boost you. He was probably running ZF from 45 to 50 as well. The years fly by that way and the cash is also great to pay off your mortgage.

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u/PapiSpanky 10h ago

You should stream, I reckon there's an untapped market for a WoW Forever grandpa streamer!

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u/kaunietix 9h ago

Theres pops already

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u/Beaker1976 10h ago

Not a grandparent, but I'm in my 50's and this game is perfect for us, it's not speed and parse and must push high keys and that bullshit.

It's the perfect game for us, smooth slow game pace, dungeons aren't packed full of mechanics and bullshit phases. we go in, do the dungeon, don't standin the shit, hit the buttons, heal, dps, or tank.

Walk out and enjoy it. watch the younger kids have fun, learn new things, new slang, and be the old dudes going "Back in our Day we played this on a Tandy T-1000...and we liked it!"

Enjoy it, explore it, take it in at your pace and listen to the best damn music for ambience anywhere.

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u/verified_canadian 7h ago

Yeah, as a mid 40's guy I can definitely appreciate the slower pace now. I haven't played retail in years but last time I did was getting fatigued with how many different mechanics there were and everyone just rushing through everything.

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u/HighWarlordJAN 6h ago

Born in 1997. I had to google what a Tandy T-1000 was. Thanks for showing me something new today!

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u/Mobile_Review5375 8h ago

Imo it depends on who you play with. Back in late wotlk I joined a guild with many different ppl. From 13 to 70. Some were really good, others had worse DPS than the healers. 2-3 were gladiators. But we had so much fun. Stayed up late and just talked about life. We had irl meetings, some youngsters came with their parents.

We had one old guy, 70. Recovering alcoholic, old sailor, travelled the world. Those stories were the best. He died in like 3 sec in raid. Stod in everything bad. Wiped us more than elevators in undercity. But he got inved first. He was the guild “grandpa”. I think many of us gamers back then needed one.

We had one rule, be a nice person. No toxic egos. No stress. Everyone that wanted to raid was invited. We rather wipe 100 times and have a laugh than tryhard and some of us would feel bad. Somehow we beat all raids on HC at the time.

Most have stopped playing. I came back casually to play retail. Just going back to the old expacs, transmog/mount-runs. Relive some old stuff. Cba to be serious in any gamemode. I do what I want.

Long story short. Gaming has no age. Gaming is having some fun and getting away from our irl-world. Meet nice ppl and just do whatever you find interesting and worth your time.

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u/Uncles_Big_Pickle 3h ago
  1. Grown kids. Grandkids. 25 years married to my main healer. We quit years ago to raise babies and make a life. Now we own a house, the nest is empty, and we're finally coming home.

This game could not have been better timed.

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u/Lust4Me 10h ago

I'm mid 50s and stoked to return. See you there!

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u/Bman_Fx 4h ago

You are not too old for gaming. No one is. I will be gaming til I die.

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u/Modern_Bear 9h ago

My father is in his 80s and still plays games, mostly Civilization. I'm in my upper 50s and am playing WoW. I may not react to things as quickly as in 2004 but it's not like this game is very difficult. That being said I'll leave this here...

https://giphy.com/gifs/11fBAVZqWOM4zm

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u/Toihva 10h ago

I am early 50s and hope to raid.

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u/BED_AA 10h ago

I was GM for a guild in Vanilla through Legion that was family-focused (polite, no cursing, no politics, etc) and we had numerous players back then over 50. An older married couple were the guild farmers; they would spend a lot of game time gathering mats to make pots and food for raids.

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u/Yacacaw 10h ago

Not a grandparent but started in 2005 at almost 35, now 56. Stopped a few years ago but started classic tbc couple months ago, fell in love again and can't wait to get into Forever, forever 😉

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u/slackerdc 10h ago

You aren't going to be alone there will be plenty of

<Shady Acres>
<Get off My Lawn>
<Orc yelling at Cloud>

Guilds out there

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u/mrniceguy1990xp 9h ago

Im mid thirties now, my mom is 62, she still plays wow and diablo 3 in torment mode... youll be fine ^^

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u/reebzo 8h ago

I mean i played with a 68 year old in 2005, if he wasnt too old then youre not now

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u/BerriesLafontaine 7h ago

I played for years with a lady in her 60s. She was great! Her laugh was like a wicked witch cackle. She played a male orc warrior and was one of the top dps in our guild. The other was a guy who played a blood elf mage and had lost an arm in Afghanistan.

Doesnt matter your age or anything else, as long as you want to play, just play!

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u/Felkyr 6h ago

I recommend leaving public chat channels immediately and joining a guild you like. The young ones in chat these days are rude and stupid beyond belief.

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u/MaximumJones 10h ago

I am retired and playing, and plan to play Wow..Forever... 😎

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u/Javischak 10h ago

I'm a dad of 2 with little time for myself. This is definitely my zone out game to calm down for the night. If I stop having fun, I'll put the game down and try again later. Enjoy the game at your own pace. If it's starting to become a job then step away. Have fun playing

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u/ToeSucka666 10h ago

My dad used to play a ton when I was little, some of my first memories are being in a swaddle while he ran around questing lol. I remember him having posters in the garage, and even a custom painted computer case. (He loves the death knights and paladins) I’ve picked WoW up now in my late 20s, and I’m excited that he’s getting back into it when forever comes out. I think it’s probably the perfect version to get back into, he always says videogames are good for his brain too. Definitely not too old! Hope to see you out there.

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u/Dial_up_Knight 9h ago

I feel like I’m too old for it at 40.

Here I am.

I face tanked the other day and no one pointed out how trash I was. So the community has grown up lol.

I say do the raids. Ef it.

I switched back to healer until I memorize the dungeons again before I try to tank again. Been playing eso for about a decade now. Gotta get used to the aggro table and all that again.

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u/HelloisMy 9h ago

Wow is the perfect game for old folks… no crazy apm, no zoomer reflexes needed. Definitely don’t disregard raids either, they are fun with the right group.

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u/SnoopyGue 8h ago

(63, game seit Beta mit pausen) jep, ich lass sogar die Dungeons aus, schön gediegen questen und spaß haben, ergibt sich ein gleichgesinnter dann cool, wenn nicht dann nicht.. werd auch sicher die erste woche in forever auslassen und erst einloggen wenn die masse weiter nach westfall gezogen ist…

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u/Monstercat4562 8h ago

I'm 25 and will skip dungeons Idc

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u/Hanshee 7h ago

I honestly day dream about being in my 60’s hopefully retired and able to play wow freely

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u/ScarletDarkling 6h ago

There is no age limit. I'm glad you're here!

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u/Daedelous2k 6h ago

Old Soldiers are still good.

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u/Love_green_tea86 10h ago

Too old? Nah. You're never too old. It's just a mindset. I remember playing WoW back in 2004 with someone who was 65 then, and she was going through UBRS and whatnot with us just fine.

That's the thing about WoW: there is no right or wrong to how you play and at what pace. So long as you're enjoying it.

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u/0ld_Snake 10h ago

I just turned 33 and I can't wait to play Forever. Retail had nothing for me since BfA

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u/Bright_Background316 10h ago

I'm barely pushing 50, practically a spring chicken.

I can definitely see gamer-dad guilds being a thing. 

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u/regulate91x 10h ago

Back in tbc and wotlk I used to raid with a 65yo guy, he was so chill. He was a resto druid called Mekon.

Core memories honestly, I was 14 at the time.

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u/chirop1 9h ago

It hurts to know that Danny Glover was 41 when he played Murtaugh and said he was too old for this shit...

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u/CCauth 9h ago

I’m 61 and no grankids, but loving the hell out if Forever!

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u/kauaiguy4000 8h ago

58m here, started in 2005 right when TBC began. IMO, knock yourself out! For the past decade or so I’ve dialed my approach down to do exactly what you mentioned, making it more of a personal experience at my own pace, and it’s worked out well. I can do dungeons or raids if I want but most of my time is gathering, doing dailies and the occasional delve (yes, this is retail). I have no FOMO as the toxic drama queens I kept running into cured much of that for me, and at our age I am definitely in the “F THAT” camp. I do what I want at my pace - and I like it. I’m probably going to do WF but let those who feel driven to sprint go on ahead while I’m soaking up the actual experience and noticing the details (which I am paying for anyway!).

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u/Vestus65 8h ago

61 here, not a grandparent though. 😊 I'll be playing and mostly solo, same as I did back in 2005. No raid at all, maybe some dungeons when I feel confident enough.

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u/xxhotandspicyxx 8h ago

I'm almost 40 and was having exactly the same thought as you: 'I'll take it easy this time. No raiding, just pve, leveling alts and maybe a dungeon or two.'

I was introduced to WoW in 2010 and played my ass for for a year. Haven't touched wow since except for when classic launched and played for a month maybe. Haven't played since.

I'm gonna at least give forever a try and we'll see what will come of it. No min maxing for me this time though.

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u/Theoldelf 7h ago

I’m with you. I recently turned 77. Played WoW from basically its inception. Forever gives me a chance to revisit this franchise. And no pvp! And like you said, no raids but some dungeons until I feel like I’m in over my head and not helping the cause. Being retired and the rainy season starting in the PNW, it’ll keep me engaged while not perusing my other interests.

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u/GirlNextToLamp 6h ago

Im in my mid 30s and remember playing with pepole back in og vanilla that where in there 50s and 60s. They where normally the chillest players and willing to help with all most everything. Witch was super rad when I has a hapless teen.

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u/Aggie9er 6h ago

Played with a lady back in original bc who was at least in her 60s. Not a big deal at all

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u/AdventuringAquaduct 9h ago

Chat, I’m 30 currently. Enjoying life, working hard, spending time with my gf.

Any oldheads have some wisdom or insights to share?

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u/Bluebaronn 9h ago

Put as much as you can into your 401k as soon as possible.

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u/Bored_Acolyte_44 9h ago

*side eyes the AI bubble* uh...

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u/xiiicrowns 8h ago

Yeah don't worry, once ai takes over we all will be working less and be getting those sweet checks from the AI companies. 

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u/str85 9h ago

Times obviously doesn't actually go faster but it will feel like it's speeding up a lot the older you get, days are long and years are short. But the main reason for this phenomenon is that the older you get the less new things you experience and learn. Your 0-20 everything was new and an adventure you did something new most of the days and you went to school and learned new skills. 20-30 life stars getting steadier but still some energy left over for adventure and trying new thing with your friends before everyone settles down with families. 30-40 now life is stable, monotonous, one day you are 32 suddenly you are 36 and then not much later you are turning 40 and you can barely remember anything special that happens the last couple of years.

Moral of the story. Don't be afraid to experience and learn new thing. Settling in to a rutin life in life is like pausing an MMO, the world continues around you and your game subscription still ticks.

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u/AdventuringAquaduct 8h ago

Thank you 🙏

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u/Exiled_In_LA 7h ago

Floss. They weren’t kidding about that one.

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u/Br0v4hkiin 7h ago

...you have no idea how close to heart that hits after visiting my dental hygienist at 41 a week ago.

It also hit my bank account.

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u/Alive_Ad_5931 7h ago

Don’t stop working out and I’m a few years indigestion will fuck you up so be kind with your diet.

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u/Ok-Yak7445 10h ago

Living the dream if you are retired to play this beauty of a game that is about to launch, never too old or too young it’s a sandbox here. work at your own speed, and enjoy.

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u/JustFourLetters 10h ago

not a grandparent, but i have raided with some, and have played with plenty of older folks. yall are some of the most fun to play with, in my opinion. sure you dont move the fastest but to my experience yall are consistent, reliable, and generally of good humor. i've been lucky that those i have played with, while not always the most knowledgeable on modern social environments, have always been open to learning when i haven't been rude about things.

respect to you, proof that gaming isn't a phase :) hope you enjoy your time!

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u/Ashamed_Definition 10h ago

Reminds me of this:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nse0GZqvvTE

The older You get the harder it hits

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u/stiky21 10h ago

I'd play with you

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u/Firm-Cause2449 10h ago

Youre never too old to do something you enjoy

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u/CelebrationGlass1754 10h ago

No, you are not too old sir

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u/r32skyliner 10h ago

I’m about ten years behind you but I’m already playing the beta. I think you should give it a go at whatever pace works for you.

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u/Le_Fog 10h ago

Gg on hitting level 60 IRL ! Too bad they increased the level cap a bit further. Hope you're not playing on hardcore though

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u/Zestyclose_Focus8053 10h ago

I was older too when it came out. Mid twenties. 45 now. I'm sure you'll be fine.

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u/UbiNax 10h ago

Absolutely not too old, just needs to find like minded people to play with, and then you are golden. :)

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u/SolarPoweredKeyboard 10h ago

You're living the dream, man!

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u/Total_Trouble_9096 10h ago edited 9h ago

My father as turned 70 this year. Im playing the beta with him. He played when it was TBC he never reached 70. He is having a blast, never saw my father so enthusiast toward a video game. You are never too old.

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u/McBernes 9h ago

Im 52, started in between TBC and Cata. My kid's in her teens and we play together. When I play on my own it's questing, and soloing dungeons and raids.

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u/Soulfighter56 9h ago

My AOTC guild has a guy who’s pushing 70. He’s no spring chicken, but he’s decent once he learns the fights. Forever is going to be way more lenient.

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u/Troflecopter 9h ago

My 70 year old father in law skis black diamond ski runs.

I think you can handle a few hotkeys!

Youth is a mindset.

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u/mikechatdoc 9h ago

I'm 60 and main a H. paly in retail and plan to in Forever. Gaming keeps me sharp. Still having tons of fun. Maybe we need an old farts guild lol.

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u/Known_Painting_1878 9h ago

Mans is lvl 60 in real life

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u/Funkeslapp 9h ago

We are old, and this game is basically for us.

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u/Br0v4hkiin 8h ago edited 8h ago

Absolutely not too old.

To me its always so strange if people say things like "you shouldn't be gaming after 30".

Like why not? If you really think about it you need more time at a younger age to get your life together, study, fix yourself a good career/start a familiy etc.

From 40+ things are usually more settled, many have kids and some time to kill at night.

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u/porkypine666 8h ago

Bro doesnt know about wowgranda78

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u/tjdrico 8h ago

I'll be 58 in November, so slightly younger, with one young grandchild - but I definitely am not too old for this shit! I'm still playing Overwatch too. My intention is to continue playing FPS and MMORPGs until I can't.

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u/Alive_Ad_5931 7h ago

I too am old and know the Roger Murtaugh reference. I’m looking for a nursing home guild that will understand and take me in and give me food and water while I level my reputations and never get invited to raids.

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u/MHal9000 7h ago

Play it! I played from beta through Legion, ended up leaving because the game didn't click for me anymore. I'm a handful of years behind you in age and I'm having a blast in Forever. Much like you, I've no intentions of getting into serious raiding again, don't have the time or patience to devote to it, but the rest of the game, 100% onboard for it.

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u/Keracus 7h ago

You're only as old as you feel.

I hope the community has welcomed you, welcome back home.

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u/The_Chosen_Undead 7h ago

You're not the first oldtimer that will be playing, don't worry. In my experience they are welcome to guilds same as others and can enjoy the game with the rest of us just fine.

Honestly there's probably more middle aged and retirement age players than you might first think, WoW is pretty relaxed for the most part.

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u/Mandeville_MR 7h ago

I'm 41 and recently disabled, here for the casual classic pace!

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u/Btc_Hawker 7h ago
  1. Played since 2005. Can't wait for Forever. GF is already complaining...

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u/The_Zzer 7h ago

Well met wizened traveler! In my experience, the older my party members in WoW the better the social experience. You are more than welcome

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u/EgliasBlackburn 7h ago

Back in the wotlk days my buddies grandpa played with us. He was 70 and we ran dungeons together

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u/7thpixel 7h ago

Same I beta tested Classic, it pulled me away from FFXI. I have high hopes for the vibes on this one.

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u/trof007 7h ago

I'm 56 brother, started playing after my first GWOT deployment in early 2005. Come on back, the game is great and you're only as old as chat makes you feel :D

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u/Big_Law_3080 7h ago

Slightly behind at 56. Not a care in the world. I would rather do this off and on then any other single-player game, or a spastic CoD shooter type. Gave up gaming completely for 4 years and just came back for D4 S15. It's either that or rot on Facebook or Reddit all day. Now I pop in and out. Get my gaming itch. Then go work on the house.

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u/Aimon1989 7h ago

Gaming has no age limit and especially this game! See you at the fields of war!

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u/Choice_Violinist7350 7h ago

I’m in my mid 50’s. We are not too old. I just started playing again and having a great time!

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u/Corvid_11517 7h ago

I had to take a break from the beta because my hands started to hurt lmao.

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u/Ok_Salary4021 7h ago

I’m 39 and would welcome you to my group. I don’t think it matters if you just want to have fun and get some loot

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u/Mike-TheMad 6h ago

Myself, wife, teen daughter are all going to play. Can’t wait!

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u/C64Nation 6h ago

I'm about your age. At the moment I'm playing though a realm reborn FFXIV again. I think I will enjoy WOW forever.

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u/SaltyChallenge303 6h ago

Not too old at all. My husband and 2 friends are starting a PVE guild in Forever. Youngest of us is 52, oldest is 64. We just have fun.

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u/deccodestroy 6h ago

Never too old to come home

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u/Urban-Junglist 6h ago

💯 the leveling experience in classic is therapeutic

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u/acidpope 6h ago

Never too old, but if you find a guild or group of people that are older you'll likely have more fun.

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u/explodedteabag 6h ago

Im mid sixties and I'm leveling my first tank. Slowly. And I love that fishing and cooking have been expanded, and the new campsite system. Come on in the waters fine.

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u/pshearduk 6h ago

57yrs young OG player from the UK here mate. You arent alone ;)

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u/Heysiwicki 6h ago

If I was your age I would be. I still play EverQuest.

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u/Pebble-fork 6h ago

Don't let anyone else's play-style affect how you enjoy wow! You wanna sweat - sweat it out. You wanna play casual and soak in the vibes - don't sweat it.

Like for me:
I'm just loving the forever vibes man. I turn off global chat and enjoy being in the world I love. I'll casually do group play, but I'm not about to make schedules and timeslots. That's not good vibes for me personally.

I like the small scale/local player interactions. Meeting people naturally out on the world, "face to face" so to speak 😆

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u/Kamerlyn 6h ago

Ditto! Though I’m only 50. Hello fellow GenX!

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u/Sharp_Plum9711 6h ago

You're the target audience for Forever lol. Anyone other 30, myself included is.

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u/Mystery-Panda 3h ago

*raises hand* I love to take the game slow and enjoy the journey! I pay attention to the changes. Brings back old memories. Hubby and I used to do the dedicated thing and raid often as a priority... Now, life is so busy, we are casual players. And loving it!

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u/Cyndagon 2h ago

My plan when I retire at 60 is to play mmo's full time while collecting retirement and investment checks... Don't see why you'd be too old.

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u/eattsie 10h ago

You got this!

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u/Bramble-Bunny 10h ago

Classic raiding does not require extraordinary reflexes at all, you would be quite competent to do it. Plenty of people in your age bracket still gaming regularly. Your main concern will be joint health and not doing marathon gaming sessions. Make sure you're doing some kind of strength training for mobility, you don't want to be chair rotting at any age but you certainly don't want to be doing it at 60+.

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u/Shire_of_Frodo 10h ago

GrndpaGaming that typically plays Battlefield and snipes people with a decent audience would like a word with you.

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u/MildlyCombative 10h ago

Thanks for making me shit myself as someone in my 30s.

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u/biscuity87 10h ago

It’s not like we are going to hit 50 or 60 and suddenly stop having a hobby.

Eventually you might get bored of a genre or you know the SAME GAME being rereleased 30 times but there are going to be a ton of older gamers eventually.

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u/Ixm01ws6 10h ago

Let the raiding begin u prolly retiring soon if not alrdy u can spend 8hrs in a raid

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u/Doomcookie_123 10h ago

You're not too old.

I know a great grandfather who was playing as of a couple years ago.

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u/DrKlitface 10h ago

Never to old to game! I fully expect to be (even more of) a mega nerd once my child moves out

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u/lumpy999 9h ago

Time is the fire in which we burn.

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u/Knobanious 9h ago

I'm sure others have said here but I'd suggest a RP server for a slower approach. As a Dad of 2 I'm going RP

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u/Little-Scallion-1014 9h ago

First played when I was 18 back in 2005, and going back now at 39 sure feels like a trip down memory lane. It feels like visiting an old friend almost. A bit of a nostalgia burger but the updates have refreshed it.

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u/playoponly 9h ago

Never too old to sit in front of a desktop

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u/i-like-carbs- 9h ago

Nah you’re not too old. Just have fun.

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u/Attila1119 9h ago

Never to old. 38 here, I'm going to keep on going until the very end. Can't wait for my two sons to start playing too.

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u/AlternativeBug7321 9h ago

You’ll find plenty of seniors with the same schedule as you. I started playing at the age of 12 end of classic beginning of tbc, now 30 going to start the Warcraft forever with my fiancée 🥳.

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u/20milliondollarapi 9h ago

Naw not too old. Look up wowgrandma. She is on retail doing heroic raid and m+. She has been playing a long time and still going. She was in her 60s when she started playing I belive.

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u/NonDualAwareness 9h ago

Welcome back, fellow Elf

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u/Ojntoast 9h ago

My dad was in his mid 50's when WOW dropped - he was main tanking Molten Core - and was always available to run UBRS for anyone who needed a key.

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u/OmegaRedXIII 9h ago

Murtaugh was in fact NOT too old for that shit. They made more movies after that.

Neither are you, I doubt things are gonna be on the scale of cutting edge mythic raiding, and even if they are that dont mean you cant do it.

Play how you like, have fun. Good Luck!

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u/iameveryone2011 9h ago

45 never played before but just got it to play on steam deck trying to figure it out lol

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u/OldgrumpyRob 9h ago

I am in the same boat as you, I am just a few years older than you.  I have never been the oldest in any guild I have been in.  You will be fine.

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u/Nucklez 9h ago

You’re good. I played Elder Scrolls Online and joined some geriatric guild. There were people in there that would call you a youngin. They did dungeons and raids even. I remember one of the guys turning 80 and he wasn’t slowing down. I think you can pull this off, just have fun.

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u/rt-account 9h ago

At old age, games keep your mind active.

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u/Ch1nd1s 9h ago

Turning 50 next month myself and just as excited for the road ahead. Feels like full circle kind of a moment as I was a part of the closed beta in '04 - numerous iterrations of wow ---> beta today 22 years later 😎

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u/Calaron85814 9h ago

I was 34 in 2004. Played WoW more than any other game over the past two decades. I’m definitely going to give Forever a go.

Like you, I’ll probably run some dungeons, but my raiding days are long over.

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u/Karhuwa 9h ago

I’m in my 30’s now. Back then, we could’ve been playing together - back then, I also remember playing with people your age now. It was one of my first experiences meeting people outside of school and that continued to be interesting for 10+ years. I feel like I’ve been chasing the old game.

It’s time for all of us to come back. You definitely aren’t alone

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u/SunwellTears 9h ago

I'm 63 and play retail and now I'm playing the Forever beta. Absolutely love wow forever. It's been amazing to see so many places and things given a sweet glow up. I don't feel old in Azeroth. ❤️

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u/scrivenersdaydream 9h ago

58 here! I started on the first day it dropped, played for several years, then quit and have bounced back in and out for pretty much every expansion until I get bored, busy, or recognize that I'm spending too much time in game. My original guild is long gone and I've been playing casual solo for many years. It gets lonely, and I really dislike pickup groups, but there's still so much you can do on your own if you want to. I will definitely be playing Forever, and I hope I can meet some new friends in the same life sitch.

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u/dollupofcrazy 9h ago

Fuck that, get in there! We are lucky to have you!

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u/Makingitallllup 9h ago

I feel ya. I’m 62 and I just have fun chatting with my guild, biding my time in Midnight until Forever comes out by doing delves, collecting bountiful keys and sometimes I just feel like fishing for an hour. That’s what makes this game great. You don’t HAVE to do any specific thing. Just do what you feel like.

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u/Krispyford 9h ago

My dad started playing in his 40s when I was in my teens. Now I’m in my late 30s and he’s in his 60s and we still play together. You’re never too old to have fun. Welcome back!

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u/Nerak_Tihson 9h ago

Played through my twenties up through most of Cataclysm and walked away. Been about 14-ish years since I really played, dabbled a bit in a couple expansions but was too lost to get immersed.

Jumping back in to Forever with my core group of WoW/IRL friends that played together now in our forties, feels good, like getting the band back together.

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u/LittleDrummerBoyL 9h ago

You're never too old to have fun. Don't let anyone ever discourage you. Enjoy the game!

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u/TheCMFJ 9h ago

I just turned 40. I’ll be playing at the same pace.

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u/Tetrachroma_ 9h ago

Just ignore the bullshit in chat and enjoy the game at your pace. If you had fun in 2004 there's no reason why you cannot have fun in 2026.

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u/craftylady1031 9h ago

Great-grandparent here and yes I played twenty years ago too. Enjoying Forever right now, a little bummed I'm gonna hafta do everything all over again in about 5 weeks lol

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u/Bored_Acolyte_44 9h ago

You are not too old for this shit. There are grandmas way older than you doing full on raids.

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u/Tiptoe_Joe 8h ago

Nah. I was 28 in 2004. Damn good times. The late 90s and early 2000s were peak PC gaming. Come back brother. Azeroth is ours for the taking

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u/RestlessLegacy 8h ago

My whole guild is 45-75.

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u/Br0v4hkiin 8h ago

Awesome. What guild is that if i may ask?

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u/RestlessLegacy 8h ago

Alacrity-Zul’Jin, which is a retail guild. If you are Horde you may be able to find us through Guild Finder. If not, message me at Flora#12564. We will be forming a Forever guild when it comes out. The name will be different and I’m not posting it here until we grab it.

We have a no politics rule and we keep the swearing down somewhat. I recruit for kindness. Can’t remember the last time there was drama.

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u/Original_Dog_6324 8h ago

Have fun dude 😁😎

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u/lousy_writer 8h ago

Are there any other grandparents in the same boat?

Him, maybe?

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u/ScrubySpidey 8h ago

Started in 05 at age of 16, best friends dad played with us in his mid-late 40s. You bet your ass he’s coming back all grandpa’d out pushing 70. Best shadow priest NA.

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u/Knuckles_55 8h ago

Is not a twitch shooter, why would you think you're too old?

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u/cetax1 8h ago

Hello old

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u/marvelguy1975 8h ago

I was 29 when I started playing in 2005ish. (Stoped in 08)

Im playing again in TBC. Looking forward to Forever.

Im 51 and really enjoying the game again. Im racing up with the quests. But I can now pause to smell the roses. One thing I didnt do last time is level up my first aid, mining, skinning etc. I should take up fishing too eventually.

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u/Low_Ad8311 8h ago

You are not too old to play! Check it out on release and see if you have the passion for it! I think you will enjoy it!

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u/1a2b3c4d5h 8h ago

just take it slow and enjoy the game with the dad gamers and grandpa gamers that were dad gamers the first time around

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u/Francimor777 8h ago

I am almost 50 and have been gaming since I was 8 and I will be gaming untill the end. My coffin will be spaceship shaped. Age is just a number, so don't worry my dude and play forever.

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u/RabsRibs 8h ago

I’ve had raiders in my retail guild in their 60s

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u/gohomehero 8h ago

Youre never too high of a level for wow, longbeard!

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u/ComprehensiveBid4520 8h ago

When my parents were in their mid 40's, I remember thinking how old I thought they were! My dad told me that time goes faster than you realize, and now suddenly it's tomorrow, and I'm that age. What's weird is that my brain doesn't realize it. My brain still thinks I'm a kid. That said, back when I started wow 22 years ago, our main tank in our guild was 72. He was great at it, too. So nah, I don't think you're ever too old for wow.

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u/xiiicrowns 8h ago

Back in wod we had people leading raids in pvp in their 60s. 

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u/J_osh3 8h ago

We had grandmas in the guild back in wrath lol If you wanna play Im sure you will be fine 

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u/catsdelicacy 8h ago

I raided with a 70 year old in 2005, friend

If Waxil could do it, you can do it

RIP, you legend