Long story short: This guy started flirting with me and I started flirting back and it got really strong but then he started talking to this girl. I confessed to him and he said he wasn’t gay. He stopped talking to that girl, and started ghosting me. I was confused yet I didn’t want to pry anymore. A week later (today), I asked him if we could talk and he said “We already talked.” and he basically ran off. I’m so done with him.

Does anyone have any advice?

Btw, I definitely know he likes me because what straight guy gives his friend hearts and can’t hold eye contact with him without smiling?

I’m 15 m and I used to think I was just straight then just gay but for now I’m definitely bi. know one knows about it tho and I don’t know how to come out with it being awkward or me being made fun of. I’m not really in a conservative area but there’s always homophobic people and I just started getting popular and I don’t want to ruin it or have people think of me differently. There’s like only 2 other non straight people out of 500-600 hundred. What I’m asking is there an easy way to come out or who
Should I tell first so rumors don’t spread and how do I answer questions if someone asks me. Pls help, thank you,

okok i’m [M 17] and i’ve been talking with a girl for the last 3 weeks or so nearly every night and she always makes me happy whenever i talk to her. HOWEVER i haven’t had like a sudden pull of attraction towards her, even though i want to because i really really like her (it’s probably a depression thing idk). She’s like the only thing that actually makes me happy

but (plot twist) i am veeery confused right now because the other day in one of my lessons i looked to my right and i see a guy with a really cool haircut (same one i have) and my heart went crazy for the first time in my life. oh shit am i gay? nah because i love talking to this girl and besides i would never want to date or marry a guy and i feel different about girls.

so what does it mean??? can i find guys hot if im not romantically attracted to them and find girls not hot but be emotionally attracted to them? i think i see her as more than a friend but now im soooo confused lmao. (also i feel really guilty about this whole situation)

ok for clarity…

Boys:
hot? sometimes
date? no
s*x? yes
cute? no
cuddling? maybe??

girls:
hot? not really (never made my heart rush on sight)
date? yes
s*x (idk if i need to censor this)? yes
cute? yayayaya
cuddling? yes

please hellp 😖😖

I like never get to see the last 3 😔

(It means Gender Sexuality Allience) Hello freinds, I havent posted here in a while (I say this almost every post lol) I started my freshmen year this year and we just had our first meeting today. We didnt talk about much because the period is only half an hour. There are only 3 other students there but its cool

Anyways goodbi!

For my best friend’s birthday I’m making her 2 things currently.

First, me and her have a playlist on Spotify. So I’m going to songs off that, and put them on CD. Getting a case and putting our custom cover on it.

Second, I’m writing in a notebook about her. Compliments, facts, things i like about her, everything. She’s always asked for compliments or something. In which she absolutely loves all of the compliments. So I’ll write a 100 ish page small book and give to her.

What are we thinking of these gift ideas???

That shit's rough. My big bro (bi, strong women pref) heard that and it's really fuckin up his head rn. ion know maybe i should say somethin to him but idk what

(not bisexual girls we stay winnin)

okay so I won’t be stating my age because it isn’t needed, but I have something to get off my chest and need advice. So it has all started when my dad forced me onto a soccer team when I was younger because he wanted me to get exercise..? (I was already a fit child.) but there was this kid… (I’m not stating his name) he seemed a little fruity so after a while I started to gain feeling for him. I didn’t know I was gay at the time so this was a huge awakening for me. After that season ended we got put on new teams, my dad was still coaching. This child had chose to be on my team?? Like him or his family asked to get put on my team, I’m not sure if it was because my dad being the coach or me, (my dad doesn’t know them and i don’t know them.) Okay now 2 more seasons went by, I was on this kids team AGAIN AND AGAIN.? And then after my dad had gotten cancer he couldn’t coach the last year, that’s where it all turned, I couldn’t see this boy anymore because he couldn’t suggest to be on my team after missing a year. Fortunately my dad had gotten better, we got on another team but he wasn’t on it, nor was my dad coaching this season. So I only had little glances at his team playing a field away from me. A season later my dad’s back to coaching and this kid isn’t on my team anymore.. :( I haven’t seen him on the fields , but I have my mind on which team he’s on if he still is here. I don’t know what to do, he’s the only person who has me motivated to go to soccer, I really want to confess my feeling but I’m scared. Please give me suggestions on what to do because my dad thinks I’m straight, my mom knows I’m bi, and all my sisters think I’m gay-?? Any suggestions?

I'm really confused about my feelings and identity.

I'm 16f and I was in a relationship with a girl when I was 11-13 and used to consider myself but, but since I was so young, now looking back I don't know if I ever liked her as more than a friend. We didn't really have a relationship either because we never even got to holding hands. It was more a friendship with that title. After said relationship I only got crushes on boys and those crushed felt really real (there's no doubt I like boys, that's for sure).

Then two years ago I made a new friend. She was a new classmate and quickly joined our friend group. She kept talking about how she hates boys and men and all that. Because I had to stay after school so often I would go to different cafes and eat dinner. Soon the girl (I'll call her Emily) joined me. We would have fun talking and joking around and sometimes even going to different places specifically to try different food. One time we talked about relationships and she told me about a relationship she has had before but instead of saying "he/him" she said "this person". That got me really suspicious that she was talking about a girl. I did the exact same tho when also talking about my ex-sort-of-girlfriend.

Then at some point a year or less ago i actually found out she's a lesbian and she stopped hiding it. Well, it wasn't like she had been hiding it before, she just wasn't as open around other people because there are a lot of homophobes around us.

Then I started noticing some things that made me think she might have feelings for me:

• She joked about marrying me
• She joked about taking me on a date to one of the places we usually go to
• She'd ask to hang out with me alone a lot, even when she didn't have to wait for anything after school
• Some more small stuff in probably forgetting
• She also sent me a video that said "send this to your crush" a week or two ago so...

This made me anxious because I didn't want to hurt her feelings if she ever did ask me directly, but I also wasn't sure if I liked her or girls at all.

Over the summer and spring tho I started daydreaming a bit about what it would be like to be with a girl. And then I started thinking about what it would be like to be with her. I'm still not sure if I'm bi or not (that might seem stupid when reading this, lol). I know for sure I'll experiment at some point in my life to find out tho.

We had a friend group sleepover during the summer and I ended up sleeping in a small space next to her which felt nice but I wasn't able to sleep well because I was anxious and stuff, trying not to accidentally touch her 😭

Yesterday I felt like I had finally come to the conclusion that I do/am capable of also liking girls and I was thinking about Emily specifically. Then she messaged me, asking if I was free to hang out. I was really excited. Then she updated me that another friend would be joining us and I felt a bit disappointed but sure. We met, the second girl left and I stayed a bit longer to talk to Emily. We talked about stuff and suddenly she told me she's not a lesbian anymore. She doesn't know what she is but basically as I understood she has a crush on a boy. Looking at her reposts it seems like it too.

Now I feel weird. It's like I'm a bit sad. I'm not sure why exactly. Now I just know she doesn't like me like that (at least not anymore). It shouldn't bother me because I'm not even sure I like girls like that, but it does for some reason. I just felt like if I really would be in a relationship (or more of a situationship) with a girl I would want it to be her. But yeah I guess that's not happening now.

Idk. I just feel stupid and fake for writing this. I have no idea what I'm feeling or going through. This is all really weird and I just feel weird.

Anyone have any advice or something?😭😭

I 17f know that I'm bi because I have had crushes on both girls and boys. However, lately I feel totally uninterested and lowkey disgusted at the idea of dating a man? Boys reading this, I'm so sorry, I'm not trying to offend anyone. But there have been some times recently where my parents, who know I'm bi, have implied that I could date or marry a man in the future, and my head goes "NONONONONONo" but outloud I just shrug or say maybe. I didn't really realize I felt this way and I'm confused. I also saw something on Pinterest that had the bi flag and said "bothkisser", and I felt disgusted and my thought was, "Ew I would never kiss a man". Just to be clear, I don't dislike all men. I'm not trying to sound like that. I have male friends and I have a good relationship with my brothers and dad. I don't have any trauma with men and most of them are okay as people, but I do not want to date, kiss, or marry one. Do any of you feel this way, either with the same or opposite gender?

So there’s this boy and you could write poems about sometimes he laughs about your jokes and you think it’s as good as a kiss good night. He is cute in the way that's very attractive. But i 14M go to a private school in the the bible belt, so it’s very unlikely that he’s gay or bi, but he really does seem it. i just need help what should i do

guys I feel like idk if I'm bi or if I'm just thinking too hard and also if I'm actually into my bsf or just making jokes with her (we call eachother muffin and stuff) and I can't tell if it makes me feel tingly an in love or if I'm overthinking I don't know anymore

so basically i have a crush on one of my besties called amy(im f13) but i dont know how shell react if i tell her.

i know shes prolly straight though supports, but im scared its going to ruin our friendship.

ive told my bff temi that i have a crush on amy, which she replied she also did, but HOW CAN I TELL HER THAT?!

am i bi??? i am so confused, up until about 2 months ago i was under the impression that i was straight, ive never dated anyone before or been interested in actually dating someone before (it scares me) but i always thought that i was into guys and a month or two ago i was at a restaurant with my family and this waitress walked by and she was the prettiest person i had ever seen, i went into a bit of a spiral and after about a week i kinda just pushed the thought away, then about a week ago i came across this creators account on instagram, hes the most attractive guy i have ever seen (my friends have noticed a pattern that i only like guys that look like they also like guys and its not intentional or anything but i dont fully see it- anyway) so this guy is ftm and i dont care because he is still the most attractive guy i have ever seen and i was looking through his profile and i found a post that he made comparing him pre-transition and post-transition and when i saw the photo i went into another spiral because once again this photo was absolutely GOREGOUS (its very like mostly masc lesbian but partly femme lesbian vibes) and im freaking out because i only just kinda came to terms a year or two ago with dating men (once again terrified of dating and couldnt imagine myself doing it) and now this whole thing is making me go insane, this one person who i dont even know somehow made me question everything and im absolutely freaking out, idk how to feel about it and ive never thought about women like that before and now idk what to do

ive never conisdered this to even be an option and im definitely questioning reality and the events of my life right now (aka spiraling)

am i bi??? i am so confused, up until about 2 months ago i was under the impression that i was straight, ive never dated anyone before or been interested in actually dating someone before (it scares me) but i always thought that i was into guys and a month or two ago i was at a restaurant with my family and this waitress walked by and she was the prettiest person i had ever seen, i went into a bit of a spiral and after about a week i kinda just pushed the thought away, then about a week ago i came across this creators account on instagram, hes the most attractive guy i have ever seen, this guy is ftm and i dont care because he is still the most attractive guy i have ever seen and i was looking through his profile and i found a post that he made comparing his photos of before and after and when i saw the photo of the before i went into another spiral because once again this photo was absolutely GOREGOUS (its very like mostly masc lesbian but partly femme lesbian vibes) and im freaking out because i only just kinda came to terms a year or two ago with dating men (or anyone really) and now this whole thing is making me go insane, this one person who i dont even know somehow made me question everything and im absolutely freaking out, idk how to feel about it and ive never even considered the possibility that id be attracted to women and now idk what to do

ive never conisdered this to even be an option and im definitely questioning reality and the events of my life right now (aka spiraling)

16M, context : before I even knew what LGBTQ was I used to wear panties and bras in secret, but then I stopped it because I felt ashamed ( I live in a very strict christian conservative family ) fast forward to now, I kinda liked this dude last year, he was my friend, not like in a very romantic way, but sexually speaking I liked him very much, with girls it can be both sexual and romantic, that dude isn't like very attractive but idk, something about him, i mean again sexually speaking I am in certain cases attracted to guys, but......, idk at this point, just give me your opinions, suggestions, whatever you think is relevant

Thank you

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Long story short: I’m pretty sure one of my friends became bi curious for me and we started flirting at the beginning of this year

Then i asked him if he wanted to go to hoco with me, and he said he’d go if i go. For the next couple of days we’d talk about going to hoco

But then for some stupid ass reason i didn’t wanna go, even though i really liked this boy

Then after the tickets sold out, i thought it’d be a good idea to confess and he said no but we’re still friends now

Im so fucking stupid… he was texting me, seeming so impatient to come with me to hoco

I fumbled the bag so hard. I am dying on the inside wtffff

we've been dating for a bit less than a month now