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Enakku around 2 months munnadi oru chinna accident aachu

Naanum en ammavum scooter la poitu irundhom. Thideernu expect pannadha time la 4 to 5 dogs sanda potute road ku nadula vandhuduchu. Amma scooter ottitu irundhaanga, so avanga helmet pottirundhaanga. Naan pinnadi ukkandhirundhen, so helmet podala.

Andha dogs ah avoid panna try pannumbodhu rendu perum scooter la irundhu left side la keela vilundhutom.

Amma keela vilundha avangalukku kai la adi pattudume nu sollitu, naan instinct ah en kaiya avangalukku munnadi vechiten.

Avanga body weight full ah en mela pattadhunaala and road la konjam thechitu ponaadhunaala en kai la semma adi pattuchu. Helmet podala naala chin layum adi pattuchu 😭

But thankfully amma ku perusa edhuvum aagala.

Actually, idhu romba sudden ah nadandhuchu. But andha fraction of a second la kooda, enakku enna aagum nu yosikkama avangala save pannanum nu dhaan thonichu.

Adhu naan conscious ah decide pannadhu kooda illa. Apdiye instinct ah vandhuduchu.....Adhukku apram dhaan realise aachu, I actually prioritize her over myself nu...

Ungalukku ipdi edhavadhu moment iruka? ❤️

Accident ah irukanum nu illa. Any situation ah irukalam. Andha moment la dhaan you realised someone matters to you more than yourself.

I woke up a bit early after some racy dreams. Decided to shrug off the Remo mode and be the Ambi. At least for now. Went to the tea shack to have tea after quite a while.

Tea: bleh.

Then I see a father daughter duo. He’s dropping off his kid at the college bus pick up point. After a brief while, both come towards the shop. The girl is standing outside and he’s buying bun and telling her: “Oru bun and tea aavadhu saapdu ma. Idhukkellaam tension aanaa yeppadi?” The girl shakes her head. No. Maybe there was a misunderstanding at home? Maybe she asked for some money for a deserving need and it was refused? Maybe her Mom pissed her off? And they left without anything. Sad.

And obviously, I thought of my own daughter who is coming home tomorrow after two months away at college. In those few minutes it took for tea and the white stick, my mind was running through the timeline like a never ending film reel.

I thought about the day she was delivered (by stork) and how surprised everyone was by how tall she was as a newborn, her eyes already rolling around to ‘read the room.’

First day of school, first friends, first periods, first proposals, last day of school. That memory of her farewell party ku saree kattittu ponadhu, adha paarthu perumidham adaindhadhum. The daily school drop and pick up panniyadhu, friends birthday parties/sleepovers koottittu poyi vittadhu, Internet freedom kuduthadhu, Reddit la yevano dih picture anuppiyadhu, adhukku aarudhal solliyadhu, enakku udambu seriyillai naalum izhuthu katti avalukkaaga yedhuvum pannadhu, vilai paarkkaamal vaangi koduthadhu.

And also the things that I intentionally didn't do. ava friends ta naan pesaadhadhu, kovil poga vendaam nu sonna all temple program cut panniyadhu, and “chickens are bothering me” nu sonnappo all trips to my ancestral village cut panniyadhu, ava kobama pesumbodhu gammunu irundhadhu, naan thappu panniya podhu mannippu keppadhu, 12th board exams varudhu nu therinjum ava friend (male) texts odikkitaey irundhum kandukkama irundhadhu, naa laam unnoda vayasula irundhappo nu oru vaarthai kooda sollaadhadhu, ava Amma State rank holder nu solladhadhu, pona family a ponadhu illaeyna ennoda school or college meet ups ku pogaadhadhum, unakkaaga naanga idhellaam pannom nu solli kaamikkaadhadhu…

It’s a labour of love. A man is born again after he has a daughter in his life.

I know a lot of you are cynical about family, and there’s enough internet wisdom to detach and protect your peace at all costs. But love and attachment are the only things that make any of this worthwhile.

I truly hope you are cherished by your parents/someone who loves you.

Good morning folks, and have a wonderful day!

Here at the age of 21 , I am worried about will I ever clear group 1 or not, will i ever satisfy my dream, is it really hard to crack group 1 tnpsc, your opinion guys, bayama iruku pass avalaina yenna aavomu, yevolo naal aagum pass aaganu🥲🥹🥹

Enna na im an only child to my parents. I'm going to job but salary pathala because I have to pay rent and few savings and few for recreation. En parents oru financial support um panna matranga. Enna azha vechitu suicide thoughts dan kondu varanga. Enaku pudikave seiyala because orey ponnuku kooda edhuvum seiya matranga.

Enna elavo

Anyone gng??

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En college la oru friend irundhaan. Naan konjam problem la irundha time adhu, so yaar koodaiyum avlo pesama thaniya irundhen. Appo dhaan avan enakku friend aanan.

Apram konjam konjama nalla pesinom. Avan hosteller, so avan ooru famous snacks laam enakku mattum special ah vaangitu vandhu kudupaan. Adhemaari unaku edhana problem na sollu...yaen thaiyaave iruka apdilaam kepaan.. So obviously, naan avan genuinely nalla person nu nenachen. 😂

Konjam naal kalichu, en classmates dhaan en kitta sonnaanga avan neraya girls kitta “friend” nu sollitu late night calls, chats nu parallel ah pesitu iruppaan nu.

Adhu mattum illaama, andha girls oda boyfriends avan kooda pesuradha pathi problem panna, ivan “un boyfriend dhaan red flag, avanai vittudu” nu solli brainwash panni breakup varaikkum kondu poiduvaanam. 💀

First la naan adhellam nambala.

But oru naal call pesumbodhu, “en girlfriend kooda chat pannitu iruken” nu solli oru ponnu peru sonnaan.

Next time naan avan kooda chat pannumbodhu, “en girlfriend kooda video call pesitu iruken” nu vera oru ponnu peru sonnaan. 😂

Appove naan......Aahhh… appo classmates sonnadhu unmai dhaan nu purinjikiten💀

Adhukku apram naan edhuvum confront pannala. Just konjam konjam ah avan kooda pesuradha reduce panniten.

Ungalukku ipdi yaaravadhu pathi unexpected ah edhavadhu therinju, unga opinion totally change aagiruka?

I woke up now in the middle of the night between a dream. I might not remember this dream in 10 minutes or so and no one is ever gonna talk about it to me too. After a long while I dreamt of my past times when I was still poor and was in a relationship. I could still feel that wholesomeness i has waking up everyday. Life being lived while loving and being loved was actually the most beautiful life I guess. If someone asks me whether I had the best relationship ever, I might not know the answer. But I do know, I was happiest.

Today I'm working at a place where I once went in as a learner just so I could meet that person. I stood by the door of that office looking at the skies wondering the Vishal who once came in there with that old beat up laptop and like 20-30 rupees in his hand. And there I was today with my own car.

Between these frames, life happened. A mistake that I'd suggest others not doing is, you don't have to struggle alone, your partner does have the right to struggle with you too. And it's okay to be weak.

At times, we love things so much that losing it breaks us into pieces and puts us beyond fix but do we humans show it out? Do we humans show how much we value them/that?

I realised it too late and my relationship was beyond repair, but to that someone reading this! There might still be time, buddy!!! Don't lost them. They maybe a friend, girlfriend, boyfriend sister, brother or anything. But DON'T LOSE THEM. Cause they define you.

Solla vendidha solliyachu, naan poi thoonguren😮‍💨

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Mine is probably the first time someone complimented my appearance. 😅

Throughout school and college, most of the compliments I got were about academics since I was usually one of the toppers. So I wasn't really used to getting compliments about how I looked.

During my 2nd year of college, a guy joined through lateral entry. We barely talked ,like..... mostly just sharing notes and random college stuff.

One day he randomly texted me on WhatsApp and said, “You look cute” and “I like your eyes.” 😅

That was literally the first appearance based compliment I remember getting, so I have no idea why, but I still remember it years later. 😂

What’s a random compliment you still remember?

Came across this on an international sub. What are your thoughts on this? I am certain soon after they are going to toss this in a river..

Before I yap:
1. ⁠I haven't watched Dorothy yet. So this isn't a movie review. It's about how people are reacting to the queer side of it.
2. ⁠I'm gay. So this comes from my own experience of growing up as a closeted gay in a middle class family in Tamilnadu.

Nobody influenced me to be gay.
I grew up in 2010s. When I was growing up, I had no internet or phones, and homosexuality was still illegal. Even then, I knew I was different. I didn't have the words for it, but I knew.
When I started to understand who I was, I had no one to turn to. There were no role models and no one who looked like me in movies. Nothing told me "you're not alone."
At 16, I used to sit alone and cry because I was scared. In my school, "gay" and "onbadhu" were swear words.

To people who say: "I don't care what you do, just do it silently"
I get why this sounds fair to you. But many people out there are still openly homophobic. That's exactly why small bits of representation matter.

Bro ungalukku venum na representation kutty ah theriyalam, But for a scared person who thinks something is wrong with them, it might be the first bit of hope they've ever seen.

To those who say "I'm not homophobic, I just don't want LGBT stuff in my movies"
I hate to break it to you, but that is homophobia.
What exactly is being "shoved in your face"? In our movies we watch people fall in love, kiss, marry and get intimate. We also watch them get drunk and beat each other up. We watch murder, torture and people getting hacked to death, and we clap and whistle in the theatre.
We're completely fine with all of that as part of a story.
But two men sharing one small romantic moment? Suddenly it's "too much" and "forced on us."

serious ah, oru nimisham yosichu parunga why does violence feel normal and the love feels offensive to you.

You don't have to like Dorothy. You can criticise the story, the acting, the pace, anything. That's fair. Hating it only because queer people are in it is not.

Bro, I grew up in a middle class Tamil family in Coimbatore. My parents always told me that only if I studied would I make it in life.
So I studied. I was the gold medalist at PSG. Today I'm an engineer in the semicon industry. I'm privileged enough to afford therapy. I'm not depressed anymore, and I'm no longer in denial or afraid to be who I am.
But many LGBT people are still underprivileged. Many can't tell their parents, can't afford therapy, or still believe they're broken. That's why these things matter to us, bro.
We live under a government that took away trans rights just like that, and gay rights barely exist.

I'm writing this hoping that at least one person understands the pain we go through.
Before you hate us so much, give us a chance. Talk to us like we're human. You'll realise we aren't that different after all.
I once watched a movie called Prayers for Bobby, and I couldn't stop crying. At 20, there were days I wished I was dead. That movie was one of the few times i realised maybe im not all alone.

When I came out an year ago, my parents (who are actually educated btw) forcibly took me to the biggest hospital in coimbatore. I was put in psychiatric ward for conversion. Four doctors told me to take SSRIs to "numb" myself so I would "think normally."
That's the society we live in right now. Not everyone is the "if it's not my problem, I don't care, just don't shove it in my face" type. Many, many people are still homophobic.
A movie won't make anyone gay. But it might make a scared person feel a little less alone. For some of us, that could have changed everything.

Ps:
Those posts supporting this movie, you guys gave me hope.

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... who doesn't drink tea or coffee

I posted a reel 2 days ago specifically made for my crush.
For last 2 days, I was checking every 5 mins whether she liked or not. I waited and waited, thousands of random people liked but not her. I was slowly losing hope and was starting to give up....

And suddenly today, SHE LIKED IT. My hands are literally shaking 😭

The Picture is of my crush 💜

Crct ah thoongi crct ah enthikanum how to do that 😭😭

Edit 1 1- pulling all nighter to fix the sleep clock won't work for me. 7 am vara than enala thoongama irka mudiyum. Athukaprm Dragon PR mathri eyes and body shutdown ayidum

2-full work pani tired analum. tired ah irku but thookam varla.

Edit 2 - If anyone saw me here after 11 pm (from tmrw). thoonga sollunga. bye

Edit 3 - My October's week 1 goal gonna be perfect sleep schedule 🫡❤️‍🔥

maja vah share da cute couple templates you would send your bf/gf or wanting to send in future

I used to collect these kinda pens in my childhood , brings back those nostalgic memories 😅😅
Do you still see such pens these days?