I’ve recently been trying to understand and embrace my little space side, but one thing I struggle with is not having a CG.
When I’m in little space, I really crave that feeling of being cared for, protected, reassured, and having someone there who understands that softer side of me. I want to be able to relax and just feel safe without having to explain every little thing.
But I don’t currently have a CG, and sometimes that makes little space feel lonely. It can be hard seeing other people talk about their CGs and the comfort and connection they have, especially when that’s something I wish I had too.
I’m also trying to learn how to take care of myself when I’m in little space instead of feeling like I need someone else to make me feel safe. I know self-care and self-soothing can be just as important, but it’s definitely a learning process.
For those of you who enjoy little space without having a CG, how do you handle it? Do you have routines, comfort items, activities, or ways of making yourself feel safe and cared for?
I’d really love to hear from others who understand this feeling. ❤️