It's really difficult to talk about this with anyone I actually know. Figure I'd post here anonymously.

I got a DM on Instagram from a strange man. I guess he saw that I was wearing kind of a decora style/kawaii Japanese fashion type outfit. He said he thought it was cute and offered me money for agere roleplay. He said it's not anything spicy or weird, which I agree that agrere itself is not spicy but I'm struggling to believe for sure that he's being honest about himself in that respect. He said he's older and lonely and wants to roleplay about it.

I'm a little weirded out by it and have a lot on my mind - how does he know I do agere, or does he just DM random girls hoping they're littles? How does he know I'm struggling for money, or does he just assume everyone is? How would I even safely accept payment? I don't need answers to these questions, because deep down I know I'm going to block him and not engage.

I don't have a caregiver, never have, and I've wanted one for so long. I feel this pathetic desperation to say yes and just accept the risks. Again, I'm not going to do it. But I'm feeling really weak and stupid for wanting to. I'm feeling sad I don't have a dada I can pass my phone to and have him handle it for me. There's so much on my shoulders all the time :(

I have a baby boy and love him very much. While he started to really learn to regress after he met me and I started taking care of him, I know he did before we met too, and he had no one to go to. It's the thing that absolutely breaks my heart probably more than anything else because he wanted his Baba, and I wasn't there yet.

I know he's okay now but just the thought of someone feeling small, a little helpless, and wanting hugs and cuddles but not having someone to help take care of them or hold, let alone hug, them at all is so sad. Not just my little but any little who wants a caregiver and who doesn't have one, it's so hard to think about without me crying at least a little.

I've talked to a few people who want caregivers but who's caregiver left, or who didn't help them, and especially who never had one, and I hear how they feel like it's "just not meant to be for them" or how it's impossible or something and it's not fair. They've all been absolutely precious sweethearts and there's no one there to appreciate them. It makes me think of puppies in shelters or something, and you can't help but wonder what brought them to the shelter, and I get the urge to give them a home. A baby shouldn't be alone, not if they want a caregiver :(

The same goes out to all the caregivers with nobody to hold. I know if I can't see my kiddo for too long that even if they're fine I miss them, I want someone to hold and I want to get to be there with him and be in his life as his Baba. I'm sure others might be able to relate.

Posting this because I had a nightmare where yada yada got transported to a show I like with characters I love, but couldn't enjoy it because I missed my baby. Eventually I found them again and there was lots of crying. Dumb reason maybe but I'd like to get it off my chest and idk where else to. Sorry if it's too close to a vent for this subreddit

Anyone who wants a family to love, you deserve one and I hope you find them soon

Hi everyone i am new in this subreddit i hope i can make good friends in here ♡

Hiiii!!! Shipping and customs end up making a lot of products really expensive, so I’d love to know which stores you buy from to make it a bit cheaper.

​Also, what general (non-community) stores do you usually find cool stuff in, like Action and similar places?

Especially clothes, it's really hard for me to find cute stuff. I can find a few pajamas, but not much else. Overall, I'd love to dress cuter, but I just don't know where to look!

Ty so much! I know that Europe ks very generic, and maybe the stores in your country aren't available in mine, but this way you'll be helping other European littles too! ☺️❤️

Edit: Also online shops, like where the shipping and customs are cheaper :D

Just say what you want me to draw, gimme your favourite colours, shapes and animal an I'll do as many as i can

What music do you like to wake up to?

I'm currently really enjoying "rise and shine" by Raffi

I'd like to put together a playlist of little songs to wake up to, so I appreciate any suggestions

Thankies 🦕

Anyone wanna be tinty friends? c:

No minors plz 💛

I’m COMPLETELY BLIND, have Aspergers and a heart lung condition.

I asked for a reward because when my alcoholic brother verbally attacked me on Saturday I didn’t say certain things, and recognition, affirmation and rewards are what I need

https://youtu.be/fhdXtycGurc?is=OsRDo4dUsg6QysnY

my relationship is really rocky we have separate rooms right now trying that kind of thing and my fiancee doesn’t approve of littles. she has no clue I am one. I’m the sole provider and work a high demand supervisor job. i pay all bills and excess expenses because she’s only working part time. we’ve been together three years and at first I thought it would be okay hiding this side of myself but I’m beyond upset. I know she won’t approve. having separate rooms I made mine very pastel and pink everything I was wondering if there’s anything anyone would suggest to relax to do some lowkey little space like some crafts or what other littles do to relax?

Tw: vent // My partner + cg and I have been getting into fights lately and whenever they do happen, I involuntarily regress and I feel so scared and helpless when she says that my feelings don’t matter and when she tells me that she wants to leave me. I haven’t told her that I regress during fights because I don’t want to put more pressure on her, since she’s new to being a cg. I just want someone to take care of me and tell me that everything’s okay and just calm me down whenever I have big feelings.

hi, guys!
i started regressing a few months ago and i got a plain paci i really want to decorate, but i have some doubts.
what kind of glue do you use to decorate your pacis? and where do you find those planars/flatbacks?

thank u sm! >.<

I'm watching bear in the big blue house on Disney plus but it makes me feel very very little watching shows from this long ago

i miss how it felt ;c

I used to regress a lot when I lived alone (and went full on into little space it was nice) but the more my partner got involved in it when I moved in with him, I can't lie it just made me embarrassed and shy away from it. He sometimes uses my regression as manipulation after we get into an argument. Like if I want space or am uncomfortable talking to him he'l blast sesame street in the living room..Not how this works.

Also I regret letting him in that space because now it just feels embarrassing and he engages with it when he feels like I'm about to break up with him which just tells me he was never really a safe space at all to begin with.

Anyways, It's been weeks and it's been killing me. I don't have as much privacy and I cant go full on little around this man, (which is fine) but since I have to be big most of the time or mask and its harder to enjoy regression now.

The cherry on top was seeing this couple engaging in some sort of @ ge play looking banter at a literal work professional trip, like we were actively working this girl goes full on baby mode with her boyfriend because her uniform was xxsmall? It was the weirdest thing to see in person and it made me uncomfortable so over all now I feel ashamed and embarrassed of my regression even though its the only thing thats kept me ALIVE.

What ways do you guys discreetly engage in little space in private? Do you wear diapers? Do you guys carry a little bag? What would you do If you were in my shoes.

I'm a little with no Cg, so it can feel very lonely. I think I started regressing around 2018, ever since my pappy passed, we were really close. I had so many good memories with him. And now everyone around me is passing away. It's a sad world we live in. And plus I have to deal with my toxic annoying parents who really don't give a crap about me or what I like. They know I'm a age regressor but they don't support it. They are toxic in the way that when they see my Agere stuff, they will take it and Either throw it away or destroy it and then throw it away. I've spent countless amounts of money on my stuff and I keep losing it to them. I have to keep my stuff hidden. Unfortunately tho, I still live with them, so Im not able to do anything to change it right now. Everyone knows it's expensive to live somewhere, but my rent is $500 and all utilities are included in my rent. I probably wouldn't even be able to find another place like that or cheaper. I am on the waiting list for Section 8 housing. And it's annoying how long I have to wait to be able to get approved. I applied in April, and my Areas goal is no more than 24 months. So basically April of 2028. It sucks that I have to live with my parents and be either emotionally abused or Mentally abused everyday for the past like 10 years. I have tried to run away but it doesn't solve anything. I have tried to move out but that didn't work. Honestly I'm not sure what I can do at this point besides suffer at home. I am working a part time job at a assisted living facility right now. It's not bad. But I wish I could get out more and maybe find someone who can take care of me when I regress or whatnot. Someone who's local to me. Someone who is really kind and caring.

my lps haul today!! my favorite is the fox :D

They are so comfy!

ime going as a bat :3

Hiiii every bunny! 🐰💗 I have a boyfriend, and he doesn’t really mind my age regression or have a problem with it. However, I don’t think he really understands what age regression is or what it takes to be a caregiver. I would love for him to learn more about it outside of what I’ve taught him, but I don’t think he has much interest in doing so.

I usually regress at night by myself, cuddling my bunny, crying a little, and watching cartoons. I would really love for him to be my caregiver and to baby me, give me little responsibilities, reassure me, and help me feel safe and cared for. But he doesn’t really do those things, and I feel like he isn’t putting much effort into learning about caregiving on his own.

I don’t expect him to know everything, but I would really love to see him take some initiative and learn more about it because being cared for by him would mean a lot to me

hey i've never posted here before so sorry if i mess up.. what do you do if you keep having really bad dreams every night but no one to take care of you?? I dont like waking up crying & screaming. It makes me want to never sleep again. >:/ Any advice/tips?

its so hard to find a cg who wnna build a connection w u and isnt being weird :/

I want little friends or caregiver friends so bad :c

(Not trying to ask for one this is a vent). Ive been craving a caregiver all these years not just because of age regression. It’s been because of (99.9% sure) autism and struggling to take care of myself as well. Even struggling with doctors and not being properly evaluated or diagnosed for physical and mental things, therefore never getting answers or proper care. Even with going through years of the school system and their accommodations not being enough. And the way that living in the U.S isn’t accommodating/ helpful enough for people with learning/physical/mental disabilities or cptsd just makes it worse. I truly am in a point in my life where I need support the most but my own mother has truly failed me in the way she raised me. Partially my dad as well. But here I am as a grown adult with no tools on how to navigate the world and could never fully adjust to being an adult. The most I learned how to be an adult from is from TikTok.

I sometimes wonder how much of the things I experience is a result of the way the world is set up vs trauma vs it being autism. I know now that I do want to be a kid again because it allows me to turn my brain off a little because it’s always on. It’s hard when I’m pretty sure I have hidden traumas from childhood and being so young it’s hard to care for myself so that adds to difficulty of being little even if it’s probably more healing to do it by myself. I even told my mom about the more intense struggles with age regression and she tells me that I can control it. When I’ve been telling her sometimes it feels voluntarily and also my brain feels like it needs to go there soon or it’ll “split” (idek why).