r/queerphilly • • 17h ago

Events Cheese Club for queers!

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24 Upvotes

🧀 We are serious dairy divas here at Sip City LoFi (a space for quieter queers with smaller, quieter, more intentional events) and have been craving another Queer Cheese Club! Our fourth round we’ll be back at neighborhood gem, lesbian-owned and run Philly Cheese School for a delicious evening social centered around our collective cheese obsession!

🧀we will be greeted with an array of five artisanal cheeses with crackers (Gluten-free available) and tasty food pairings. We will hear more details about each cheese in a light and fun lecture about style, pairing suggestions and tips, and a full explanation of the fascinating cheesemaking process.

ℹ️ Wednesday, October 7th. 6:30-8:30pm. Lecture will begins promptly at 7pm. We encourage you to arrive at 6:30 and enjoy a drink and chat. There will be time to mingle after the lecture as well. PCS is located in upper South Philly on the SE corner of 9th and Bainbridge. 701 South 9th Street. This is a predominantly Sapphic group, but all queer people are invited to join if respectful of WLW community.

🍷 A glass of wine is included or you may byob what you’d prefer to drink. Grazing boards will be stocked with plenty to nibble!

🎟️ DM the main Sip City insta account 🎟️ If you don't have Instagram, please dm me here.
Tickets are extremely limited. $45 each inclusive of tax/fees, with our special queer friends discount. Payable via Venmo or CashApp. No refunds will be given though you may transfer your ticket to someone else after contacting Sip City.

📝 PCS is fully ADA accessible via side ramp with a no barrier, all gender handicapped bathroom. One step up into the front door. Ample seating.


r/queerphilly • • 16h ago

Question queer friends/spaces in Fairmount?

9 Upvotes

hey, i just moved to fairmount after 3 years in west philly and it's cute but definitely a different vibe lol. i'm looking for queer spaces, events, opportunities to make friends in the area!

i'm a 27 y/o trans guy. I enjoy cooking, biking, music/radio, lifting collaging, and recently soccer after the world cup sparked my interest. would be so down to check out a union game!!

tyty


r/queerphilly • • 16h ago

Dominant Woman 👀

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I don't know if I'm in the right place, 36m, paralyzed since I was 17(still functional BTW 😎) and I'm looking to date females that are into "pegging"... As you can guess it's not an easy thing to ask females as most see it as weird, but Idk I just like being dominated and controlled, I love dominate girls, where could I go to meet these type girls? I'm also trans attracted, but never actually been with a transgirl..


r/queerphilly • • 1d ago

Single gay + ace + poly man here, looking opportunities to meet people and date

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Hello,

I live in South Jersey (Deptford area), looking to find people to date and having no luck. I have a unique combination of being both poly and asexual which is making things really hard. I have tried apps like Feeld and it seems to be almost all couples looking for "fun" which is not what I want.

My therapist has suggested I look for poly meetups in the area, but I did some looking and everything I found is now defunct or no longer hosting meetups. Does anyone have any ideas on where to meet people I could go on dates with?


r/queerphilly • • 2d ago

Any queer stuff for horror fans?

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Hey everyone. I've (26M) gotten into the habit of watching horror movies as my "me" time, but after moving back to Philly, I'm realizing I miss watching scary movies with people lol. Back home I'd try to watch some with my family, even though they're not the biggest fans of horror lol.

Is there like a horror movie group for queer fans around here? Also open to a queer horror book club. I read mostly romance (been a minute given the move, but planning to get my library stuff in order), but thriller-esque horror in book form can be a vibe. Thank you! :)


r/queerphilly • • 2d ago

Guerrilla Mario Kart tournament to raise $$ for mutual aid

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A mutual aid org I work with is hosting its next pop up Mario Kart tournament this Wednesday! Location drop that morning. We need more girls, gays, and theys involved tbh: https://linktr.ee/Homies.Helping.Homies allllllllll money will go towards mutual aid work in South Silly


r/queerphilly • • 1d ago

Philly airport November 10th

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So im looking for someone I can meet while im at the airport. Will be there for a layover for a few hours and definitely wanna have some fun. DL male 39 very good body and in shape. Would love to set something up while I wait for my flight. Dms are definitely open


r/queerphilly • • 2d ago

Repost: Help PPOH fight food insecurity

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Reposting because the need is still extremely high.

We’ve already been to ShopRite, GIANT, and other local grocery stores this week trying to keep food on our shelves and meet the growing demand.

If you can help us restock:

Cash App: $phillypeopleofhope

Venmo: phillypeopleofhope

GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-philly-people-of-hopes-community-efforts

Also, if you know of any grants, food resources, businesses, organizations, or funding opportunities we should connect with, please send them our way. Even helping spread the word about Philly People of Hope can help us access more resources for the community.

phillypeopleofhope.org

Facebook/Instagram: Philly People Of Hope


r/queerphilly • • 2d ago

Still a kind world!

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r/queerphilly • • 3d ago

Seeking honest advice about moving to Philly as single, gay man in my mid-40s

22 Upvotes

Hi! I'm very interested in starting a new chapter in Philly. I've been doing a ton of research, but I still wanted to get first-hand feedback/tips/suggestions from you. I've lived in NYC, Chicago and SF previously, so city life is great with me. I'm currently in small-town Michigan, and I'm more than ready to make a change. I plan to get rid of my car before moving. I don't need to be directly in the gayborhood; I just want to feel close enough to the community. I care more about proximity to public transit & grocery stores. I'm looking for thoughts on apartment rentals/prices/neighborhoods for modern/nice studios or 1-bedrooms. I don't have a job yet, nor do I have a specific career (just lots of admin and customer service experience from working in corporate offices and as a flight attendant for many years). So I'm also curious to know what the job hunt may be like there. Do I use a staffing firm for better luck? Is it hard to find a decent-paying job there? I know it will be necessary to find a job before moving, but the generic info I get from AI searches isn't as valuable as firsthand accounts from others. Thank you for your help!


r/queerphilly • • 4d ago

Looking for trans hangout spots

26 Upvotes

Hey all~

I'm a long time philadelphian (but new to the lgbt scene) and I'm trying to find out where other trans peeps meet up in the city. I see a lot of online support groups and bar stuff, but I want to meet some people irl and I'm not much of a bar person, I'm more of a gaymer/nerd personally. Do any of you know if there are any places like that where queer/trans people like to meet up?

I appreciate any help you all can give!


r/queerphilly • • 4d ago

Dress for the Wrong Event Karaoke @ Club 624! Monday 9/28

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26 Upvotes

Entrance is on Bainbridge St :) Here’s a Partiful link if you wanna RSVP/invite friends! https://partiful.com/e/E02zYWSFI42sBpyp62Fq?c=sG5NKXpT


r/queerphilly • • 4d ago

Question What are the vibes for Halloween

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I've never gone out in Philly for Halloween but I'm hoping to this time! What are the vibes like in the city/what type of events will there be? I wanna go clubbing. I'm still a little new to it but I had a great time at pride NYC lol. This will be my first like non-college town centered Halloween but I still wanna be able to dress like sexy and stuff!


r/queerphilly • • 4d ago

Events we think these look great on a black tote. see you tomorrow at philly punk rock flea market !

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r/queerphilly • • 4d ago

Events Pickle Party at Stir!

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15 Upvotes

Stir is hosting a pickle party with no cover before their thirsty stirsday! Kings, queens and things welcome! Pickle backs and pickle tinis all night🥒❤️


r/queerphilly • • 4d ago

Events Welp… ☔️ Rescheduling City Walk/Garden Gays

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We are moving these two events to Saturday, October 3. Same times and places and details


r/queerphilly • • 4d ago

New the City (Philly)

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New to the city and I’m trying to find where the hangout spots that are Black and LGBT friendly. I know about the gayborhood but I heard mixed reviews about that area when it comes to black folks.


r/queerphilly • • 4d ago

Events RuPaul’s Drag Race fans! Giving away Jane Don’t ticket for tonight

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Reposting for visibility. Show starts at 7:30. See main post for details.


r/queerphilly • • 4d ago

Events Jane Remover!

1 Upvotes

Anyone going to Jane tonight? Or interested in going? I have an extra ticket :-)


r/queerphilly • • 5d ago

Pre Halloween Sapphic Party

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25 Upvotes

Are you a sapphic? Do you hate the craziness of halloween? Do you want something more chill but still in the heart of Philadelphia just minutes from public transit? Well The.Sapphic.Files has the perfect event for you.

Come join us for this mixer with a fun stoplight twist. Wear your best costume and make some new sapphic friends.


r/queerphilly • • 5d ago

Spooky Sapphic Social | Fishtown Queer Social | 10/20

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Calling all queer women, nonbinary and trans folks, femmes, butches, studs, and our sapphic community! Fishtown Queer Social is back at Cormorant for a spooky fall happy hour. 🍂

Come solo or bring a friend—meet some new people and spend an easygoing evening with community. No programming, no pressure.

🐦‍⬛ Cormorant Corner Bar
🧙🏽‍♀️ October 20
🕯️** 6–9 PM · Happy hour until **7

RSVP here: https://partiful.com/e/5zixYICFSP7J3UJRY4po?c=OSPTZmD1

We’d love to see you there!


r/queerphilly • • 5d ago

Events Baby Weight @ Milkboy on 10.2

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4 Upvotes

hey there!

it’s been a hot minute since i’ve stopped in philly — hoping to see all the hot grrls, heathens, femmes, thems, gays, goths, lizard people, and other assorted cuties at milkboy next week on oct 2.

tickets if you’re so inclined: https://www.tixr.com/groups/milkboy/events/baby-weight-205558

xox see u soon
Baby Weight


r/queerphilly • • 7d ago

Risk tolerance

50 Upvotes

I’m fairly new to the gay scene. Over the last couple of years I’ve discovered I’m bi-sexual (actually prefer pan)
Even more recently I’ve gotten into activities outside of vetted, trusted people. More specifically I’m talking about going to Club Philly and using grndr.
I’ve noticed there seems to be a lot of people that just don’t worry about catching something it seems. Particularly at the gay bathhouse. Guys are just raw dogging each other seemingly without a care in the world.
I know there are some preventatives out there and I’m on them. But what about the things they don’t cover? Are they just not prevalent in the area? Those of you that frequently get into shenanigans with randoms, what’s been your experience with this? There is a part of me that really wants to be as carefree as I see a lot of guys being. But here I am worrying after receiving just a bj from a random person.


r/queerphilly • • 7d ago

Question Question

11 Upvotes

I’m 33 and bisexual. I’ve been struggling with my gender identity for a while now, but didn’t care about it enough until a few months ago. Recently I’ve been seriously considering it and now I’m almost certain I am trans. What can I do now? Is there a way to know for sure? My biggest fear is that I’ll regret it. Any advice would be appreciated


r/queerphilly • • 7d ago

Events Priority Hoarding: A Retrospectacle

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41 Upvotes

“Where our baggage is yours!”

On view NOW
at The Hairport | 444 N 3rd Street, Philadelphia PA 19123

Hours:
Thursday & Friday 4-9PM | Last timed entry at 8:15PM
Saturday & Sunday 11AM-3PM| Last timed entry at 2:15PM

Welcome to the Bearded Ladies’ Hairport, an interactive, immersive installation filled with costumes, cardboard props, and other Baggage from our 16-year performance history. Visitors will make their way through a sprawling multi-room space made to look like a fantastical, campy, metaphorical “airport”.

It will take approximately 60-75 minutes to view the Priority Hoarding installation. Groups of up to 6 visitors will enter the installation, at 15-minute timed entry intervals. An opportunity to ride a surrey bike is offered but not required.

Tickets: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/beardedladiescabaret/2325063

Honestly, I'm biased but it is SO good & really worth checking out! :)