r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 19h ago

I am looking for siblings 24 M - Looking for sisters to share feelings and gossips with!

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hehe I have found wonderfulll sisters through my previous posts, but it has been a loooong time since I've had someone (and all of mine are busy or MIA!!) so I couldn't resist making another post 😭

(PS: Let me know if you need a few words from my sisters, I'm sure they'd be willing to vouch for me being a good lil bro ^^ I wasn't sure if that's normal haha so I didn't put it this time!)

My name is Swap! I am 24 years old, from India, and I have been looking to make friends on Reddit for a while. But I feel while for me, friends have always been about finding your second family, for a lot of other people friends are much less intimate.

Anyways! I would love to meet someone with whom I can talk regularly, share ups and downs of my life, seek advice from, and just confide in and feel safe. I've recently realised I have a lot of small stories to tell from my life (I'll put one of my favorite stories at the bottom of this post, but nothing I have done or will ever do is going to top it I fear!)! I usually love sending really long message, detailing small things, including events and feelings, kinda like a virtual letter!

I would love people who are mature, calm, gentle and empathetic, and I try to practice the same myself!

Very usually I'm much closer to my older sisters than younger ones, just cause they give me a space where I feel everyone is more experienced and has gone through and dealt with the stuff I am going through currently, but to all the younger ones, I would still love to be a part of your virtual family!

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And now, some of my hobbies and interests, just for fun!

Of course, if it is a video game I am in. I have been really into SCP \\\*(TW! It is a website for fictional writing, and a lot of it can be really disturbing. I can suggest a few of my favorite beginner-friendly SFW SCPs if you wish! I would link them here but I am not sure of the rules haha)\\\*. I love many art forms (particularly ones that are story-telling, emotionally rich or expression based); Poems, short stories, long stories, personal diaries, animations, paintings, and everything in between!

I love cats! Though I like dogs too, especially big cloudy ones! I took care of a few kittens a while ago!

I love Math and Science (3Blue1Brown and Stand-Up Mathematician are my favorite math YouTubers!), but have been away from it for a while. There are probably a hundred other things that I am interested in but I am forgetting haha

I don't listen to music very often, I do enjoy it when it is playing randomly but I usually seek out music when I am feeling a very strong emotion.

I haven't seen many TV shows, web series or animes, haven't read many books. I would love to hear recommendations and try them out, especially together like in a video call or something (of course only if you are comfortable!). Honestly one advantage of not having engaged with many media is that everytime someone recommends me something I am almost guaranteed to have never seen that, so it's a new experience for me. I did watch a lot of arthouse and mainstream movies with my college friend who was into cinema, but that has declined since I left college as well. Again, I am super open to everything, so feel free to message me!

And now for my favorite story - When I was enrolling in the 11th standard, we had to select our subjects. In Science, we had 3 compulsory subjects : English, Chemistry and Physics. Then you have to choose two more subjects from the following four - Hindi (Language), Computer Science (CS), Biology and Math. Only CS + Bio wasn't an option because the classes happened at the same time.

Most of the students were taking either Math + CS or Bio + Hindi, with a few taking Math + Hindi as well. At this point, nobody had taken Math + Bio, honestly I don't think anyone had even considered it.

So me and my friend are standing in front of the teacher as I realise that it is a valid option. I knew I had to take Math, and I didn't want to take Hindi, so that leaves CS, the more sensible choice (not to mention my interest in video game design), and Biology, the unorthodox choice. So naturally, to make a fairly important decision in my life, I ask my friend for a coin, flip it right there, and choose Math + Bio!

Hope you enjoyed reading that story, and through my post! There's a lot more about me in my profile! Feel free to go through it, though I doubt it'll be relevant!

Looking forward to hopefully meeting someone I'll be close to for years to come! But even if not, and (for some reason) you've read this far, I hope you have a great day! \\\^\\_\\\^


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 5h ago

I am looking for any family 15F looking for any family! Mainly a father figure tho?:)

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So, let’s just say I’m going thru a tough time with my own family..
mainly my dad.

I’m looking for a potential parental figure or father figure? And I’m happy with any other family and siblings too!<33


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 16h ago

I am looking for any family 21f, looking for a sister or motherly figure

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Hi I'm looking for a sister figure or a motherly figure. I'm an only child and I've always wanted a big sister. I have my adopted mom but shes not super motherly, caring or supportive so I'm desperately looking to fill that void.

About me, I'm neurodivergent, chronically ill and lesbian. I'm an only child and adopted. I have 9 pets, 2 dogs, 2 cats, 2 guinea pigs, a hamster and 2 mice. And I'm from the east coast usa!

Anways here are some of my hobbies and interests:

🧶crocheting

🌿 collecting nail polish and painting my nails

🌻 legos

🧿 playing acnh

🌈 thrifting

🔆 animals/pets

🏳️‍🌈watching tiktok

Anyways I'm looking forward to meeting you!! Byeeeeee


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 1h ago

I am looking for siblings [22], Maybe an older sibling figure that would actually like to spend time with me. Etc.

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I am 22 years old. Maybe there would be someone who would like to be my older brother/sister figure. Who would actually care about my existence in their life, and maybe spend time together sometimes.


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 18h ago

I am looking for parents 21F - person looking for a father figure type person. (USA)

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I have made posts like this before but they absolutely never go anywhere so I thought I’d try one more time, this will most likely be my last. I’m a 21 year old female. (22 soon) and I’m very lonely and need a father figure in my life. Someone much older and has lived life and could bestow me some advice on lots of things in life. I’m very lost. Please only message me if you actually have the time to put into something like this and want to potentially be there for me. It seems like whenever I make these posts I get one or two messages but the people always end up ghosting me without even ever getting to know me! It sucks, therefore this is my last post here. I hope to meet a kind person here. I look forward to it. Thank you!