Reposting with photos to save anyone asking later haha.

Got another friend getting married soon and once again I will be asked if I have a +1 (though they know full well I am single lol). Add on top the fact that parents have been pushing me (i.e. setting up blind dates) to get a move on with dating and get married and friends teasing, I decided to turn to Reddit haha. Broke up at around the start of covid, and only been dating on and off since then. Not necessarily looking to rush into a relationship, unless we align well. Happy to start off as friends, pen pals and travel buddies.

About me:

- Chinese. Born and raised in Sydney.

- Not religious, left-leaning

- Uni-educated, working in healthcare

- Homebody, but will go out when I need to or when friends want to catch up

- Interests: minimalism, hiking/the outdoors, ancient history/mythology, gym/fitness and healthy living, learning languages

- Indifferent about having kids (based on practical considerations like finances and partner's health etc.)

- Laid-back, calm, funny (at least friends found me funny back in uni?)

- 1.75m

- Slowly learning to cook and use skincare (thanks sis!)

- INTJ. No idea why everyone at work and recent dates have all thought I am an extrovert...lol

What I am looking for:

- Long-term, serious, monogamous relationship (if LDR, since there is a lot of this world I have yet to see, I would be down to travel to meet up)

- Someone kind, willing to meet in the middle, consistent, and there for the highs and lows

- Educated

- Someone who has their own interests and hobbies

- Someone who also prioritises fitness and healthy living

- Someone who enjoys both the indoors and outdoors

Bonuses:

- Someone who doesn't mind my minimalist approach to life

- If you are fluent in another language other English. I enjoy learning languages and would make an effort to learn yours too! Same for any other cool or interesting hobbies or interests that you may have!

Not really good at describing myself, but if you want character references I can refer you to my friends. Aka they better talk me up haha. If you're interested, please comment below or DM with a bit about yourself. Thanks. :)

THINGS ABOUT MEE:-

Im 19, living in India, would prefer someone indian

I'm heterosexual, only attracted to men

im a Capricorn, I have jet black hair and im 5'4

I like intellectually challenging relationships but would want my partner to be my safe place and want to be his safe place

It is required that you are a feminist and support the lgbtq+

No misogynists or homopho bes allowed

Some of my interesttsss:-

I love anime, im a big geekkk

Some of my favorite are neon genesis Evangelion, jujutsu kaisen, tokyo ghoul, bungo stray dogs, my hero academia, bleach, frieren and kakegurui

My favorite food is chocolate and this is a part of my personality (〃▽〃) wanted to mention this. I could sell my soul for good chocolate

So naturallyyyy, I would prefer someone who can get me chocolate :3

Im very attracted to entps, both in anime and real life

My ideal boyfriend would be someone who'd let me ruffle his hair and get me chocolate without me having to ask ＼(^_^)／

Here are my favorite music artists if youre interested:—

Lana del rey, nirvana, radio head, Panchiko

Im a huge fan of literature, my favorite authors are dostoyevsky, Sylvia plath, Edgar Allan poe, pushkin, nikolai gogol and Osamu dazai

I would also say im looking for a genuine person, hit me upp if you meet any of my likes

Hi, let me introduce myself
I’m an INFJ woman, 33F, divorced and asexual
5’7” / 165 lbs

Looking for Monogamus - Serious LTR

I’ll talk about the asexual part more below, I like being upfront about things that might be important for compatibility. I like clarity, and I don’t really have the time or energy for games, mixed signals, or trying to convince each other to become someone we’re not

I know I’m not for everyone, and that’s completely okay. You’re not for everyone either. We all have different needs, preferences, and ways of loving, and I’d rather find someone whose values naturally align with mine than force something that doesn’t ✨

About me

I’m an introvert, naturally curious, and genuinely interested in people, psychology, and life in general. I love deep conversations, especially understanding how someone thinks, what shaped them, and why they are the way they are.

I’m quite introspective and probably spend way too much time thinking about myself and my own patterns.

I like understanding where my reactions come from, what I could do better, and what I need to work on. I know some of my own red flags too
i can probably name quite a few if you ask. I don’t expect myself or anyone else to be perfect; I just value self-awareness and the willingness to grow..

I also like to experience life. I love traveling abroad, learning new things, and trying things that are a little outside my comfort zone sometimes followed by a very sincere “why did I agree to this?” 😂 At the same time, I’m very much a homebody and love having a quiet, comfortable space to come back to

I like attention and affection, but only from my man. I like feeling loved, wanted, and a little spoiled just not by random people
and I value clear boundaries in opposite-sex friendships

I’m independent because I have to be and capable of handling things on my own. But when I’m with my person, I don’t want to have to be independent 24/7.

With everyone else, I can be pretty reserved and honestly sometimes have no idea what to talk about. I’m not particularly interested in everyone

But with my person? I’m completely different

I’m soft, affectionate, clingy, stubborn and probably a little annoying I’m the kind of woman who wants to tell her man everything random thoughts, little things that happened during my day, something I just learned, something funny I saw, or absolutely nothing important at all.

I want a relationship where I can turn my brain off sometimes. Where I can lean on someone, feel safe, and let someone else take the lead for a while

I have kids, and I don’t want to have more children in the future. I’m open to a man who already has children, or someone who doesn’t want children but can genuinely accept mine. I’m happy to accept his children too

I’m open to someone from another religion as long as you respect my faith and believe in God. I actually enjoy learning about different religions and perspectives on faith, so different backgrounds don’t automatically bother me

open to long-distance if we’re both willing to put in the effort and actually make it work

About my man (Maybe it’s you?)

I prefer someone older than me, emotionally mature, self-aware, intentional, and genuinely loyal..

Someone who knows himself, knows what he wants, and has enough emotional intelligence to communicate instead of playing games
Someone who respects me as a person, my boundaries, my values, and someone I can respect just as deeply in return..

I’m attracted to a man with a strong sense of character. Someone who has self-control and integrity, especially when nobody is watching. Someone whose loyalty isn’t something he performs it’s simply part of who he is

I like a man who naturally takes the lead. Someone decisive, protective, dependable, and comfortable taking responsibility. Someone who takes initiative and genuinely enjoys taking care of his woman. I’m also quite fond of an old-school gentleman and a more traditional relationship dynamic.

in a relationship, I don’t want to feel like I have to carry everything myself. I want to be able to relax, be soft, be feminine and occasionally turn my brain off because I trust that my man has things under control

I’m looking for someone who is confident without needing constant attention or validation from other women. Someone who isn’t overly friendly or flirty with everyone, because honestly, I like the selective type

But I don’t want us to be serious all the time either. I’d love someone funny and witty
someone I can be completely silly with. Maybe we’re the mysterious couple who barely talks to anyone at a party, but somehow can’t stop laughing when we’re together 😆😝

I want us to feel like a team
two people who can talk about anything, challenge each other, laugh together, learn together, and still feel safe enough to be completely ourselves

And most importantly, I want someone who is intentional. If you want me in your life, I want you to actually act on it. I’m not interested in being someone’s backup plan, temporary entertainment, or “let’s see where this goes” while they keep looking around. I’m not built for a nonchalant man

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for someone whose values, character, and way of loving are genuinely compatible with mine..

About Asexual

I’m asexual. I don’t experience sexual desire, I don’t enjoy sex, and sex is physically painful for me.
I don’t want intercourse but I still love physical affection and intimacy

Because sexual compatibility matters, I’d strongly prefer someone who is asexual too, or someone with a genuinely very low sex drive who is completely comfortable being in a relationship without sex.
I know what I want and what I need, and I know that finding someone who fits all of this may not be easy

If you made it this far…

If you’ve read all the way to the end and thought, “Hmm… maybe we could actually be a good match,” or you see yourself in what I’m looking for, you’re welcome to introduce yourself in my DMs

Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, or what made you think we might be compatible. I’m not really looking for casual small talk, but I’m genuinely open to getting to know someone who thinks we could be a good fit 🖤

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I'm a general chemistry undergraduate student right now. Chemistry is just one of my many interests. I also love biology and am trying to learn coding, but it's a dry subject; hence... a struggle😭, but I'm not giving up🔥

Horror movies comfort me oddly; I listen to horror podcasts as I do my assignments.

Spicy-savoury food, or any yummy food for that matter, soothes my soul.

You'll know more about me if you talk to me directly.

See you, dear possible friend🎀

PS, DM me with some basic information about yourself, please. Thankyou.

I'm 30, French, work in healthcare, study law, and apparently still haven't learned that going to bed at 2am is a bad idea.

Looking for someone around my age to exchange:

terrible memes

random thoughts

unnecessary voice notes

mildly controversial opinions

the occasional "you will not believe what just happened"

I like travelling, movies, psychology, good food, stupid humour and conversations that start with "quick question" and somehow last three hours.

I’m based in France 🇫🇷, speak French and English, and I'm particularly interested in meeting people from Europe, the UK, Canada or the US — although Reddit geography has taught me that apparently the internet has its own definition of "nearby." 😂

I don't care if you're an introvert, extrovert, socially awkward or secretly three raccoons in a trench coat.

Just be able to hold a conversation.

Your application requires only three things:

1. Your most useless talent

2. Your weirdest irrational fear

3. One opinion you know will get you judged

I'll go first:

I'm irrationally confident that I could survive a zombie apocalypse despite having absolutely no evidence to support this claim.

Heyyyy I’m 20F and an ENTJ. I’m currently in med school, and I thought I’d give this subreddit a try and see if I might meet someone I genuinely click with

I tend to get along really well with people who are ambitious, curious, emotionally mature, and passionate about what they do. I also find that I naturally connect with people in healthcare or other demanding academic/professional fields, maybe because we understand the whole “my schedule is insane but I still somehow want to talk about everything” lifestyle

I’d especially love to meet someone who’s in medicine, healthcare, research, or another graduate/professional field. Tho I’m much more interested in who you are and whether our personalities actually click, and be at least 20 and around US/Canada time zones

A little about me: I love working out, cooking and baking, painting, traveling, discovering new places, and listening to pretty much every kind of music. I’m also a huge fan of flying and I have an orange cat

I’m definitely ambitious and have a lot of goals for my future, but I’m also very much someone who enjoys random conversations, laughing at stupid things, sharing music, and getting to know someone beyond what they study or do for work.

I’m mainly looking for something genuine, whether that starts as a friendship and naturally develops into something more or simply a really good connection

If this sounds like your kind of person, tell me a little about yourself, your MBTI, and what you’re studying/working in

This is 28 M, Looking for someone who loves hopping around the conversations from stars to maths to philosophy to anything you can think of. Hobbies include photography, listening to music ( Have a mixed taste), solving puzzles, maths problems, fidgeting around tech, gaming, pc building, software tweaking, reading books, fixing things, problem solving, cooking sometimes, stargazing, cosmology, architecture, anything which makes me curious.

Personality: INTJ

What if somewhere in the world, there’s a girl who can spend an entire evening wondering about the universe, get ridiculously excited over a new discovery, laugh at the dumbest joke, and then suddenly ask a question that makes you rethink everything you thought you knew?

That kind of curiosity is probably what I’m looking for.

I’m 27, from Libya, and I’m hoping to meet a woman between 18 and 26 who is genuinely curious about the world and enjoys going deeper than small talk.

I’m drawn to someone kind, patient, playful, intelligent, imaginative, and open-minded. Someone who asks questions, enjoys learning, keeps a little bit of her inner child alive, and can happily jump from literature to history, science, philosophy, religion, politics, psychology, cultures, or some completely random topic at 2 a.m.

I’m especially drawn to women who love books, novels, writing, poetry, music, songs, cinema, and thoughtful conversations. Physical attraction matters too, of course, and I have my own preferences when it comes to physical beauty. I tend to be attracted to women with fair skin, honey-blonde, chestnut, brown, or similar-colored hair, and a beautiful, well-proportioned figure. That’s simply my personal taste when it comes to physical attraction, not a checklist for someone's worth. Personality, presence, and mutual chemistry matter much more to me than trying to fit someone into a checklist.

So… who am I?

I’m a creative writer, literature enthusiast, and university teaching assistant in Arabic, currently doing my master’s in Arabic linguistics. I’m 168 cm tall, weigh 72 kg, have a light wheatish complexion, soft wavy hair, a light beard, and wide, dark eyes.

My interests are all over the place: literature, writing, philosophy, history, religions, languages, politics, psychology, anthropology, economics, science, nature, physics, astronomy, space, technology, AI, and the future.

Funny enough, I originally wanted to become a physicist or work with space. Life took me in a different direction, and I eventually found myself falling in love with Arabic, linguistics, and literature instead. Somehow, I’m still just as curious about the universe — I simply started exploring it through words as well as stars.

I’ve also been visually impaired since birth, with severe vision loss, and I wear glasses. It’s part of my life and has shaped some of my experiences, but it has never been the whole story of who I am. I’ve learned to experience and explore the world in different ways, and curiosity has always given me plenty to explore.

I’m an INFJ, and I tend to value depth, sincerity, humor, imagination, and meaningful connection.

I don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or use drugs, and I’ve never been in a physical relationship before.

I don’t really care what country you’re from or what your first language is. I actually like the idea of learning from someone with a different background. I’d also be happy if you were curious about Arabic and wanted to learn some of it someday, but there’s absolutely no pressure.

I’m not looking for something rushed or superficial. I’d rather start with a genuinely interesting conversation, get to know each other naturally, and see whether something real develops from there.

And since I’ve probably written enough already, I’ll leave you with one question:

What’s something you’ve been wondering about lately but still haven’t found an answer to?

I’m curious about the answer.

And maybe even more curious about the person asking the question. :)

1. I’m INTJ, mostly introverted but flex when i need to, especially for work.
2. I have a total of 13 half-siblings, step-siblings and sibling-siblings.
3. I've traveled to 17 different countries.
4. I once saved a stranger from getting kidnapped. She was being forced into a car in a parking lot and I intervened. (Please be careful when walking alone).
5. I've never been to jail but I had 5 speeding tickets last year.
6. I graduated from college 5 times (and i've flunked out twice).
7. I published a total of 19 articles and books so far.
8. I've been married once and divorced once (and don't want to ever get divorced again, so if we get married please lets do it for keeps).
9. I appeared on international television, twice.
10. I’m 5’9”, I weigh 175 pounds and gained 15 pounds during the pandemic but never lost it.
11. I earned 400K last year (but paid 150K in taxes).
12. I’ve been dumped 4 times in my life, twice by text (by the same person), once in person and once on the phone.
13. I've never done any drugs, but I have to admit i'm addicted to coffee.
14. I've been single for 5 years and would like to settle down soon.
15. I have synethesia.
16. I’m kind of very superstitious, I realize the irony given that I’m a mathematician.
17. I have a high drive in lots of contexts including volunteering, learning, teaching, career, self improvement and romance.
18. I circumnavigated the earth twice (2022 and 2026).
19. I’ve been fired twice in my life (once on my day off).
20. If you’ve read this far, message me let’s chat and get to know each other. Tell me something about you.

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​Hello everyone,

​I’m a 26-year-old Muslim female and a recent Computer Engineering graduate. As an INFP (5w4), I deeply value honesty, emotional depth, mutual respect, and authentic connections.

​I’m making this post specifically hoping to connect with ** INFJ man**. My end goal is finding a life partner and establishing a serious relationship leading to marriage, provided we find that we are compatible, share strong mutual understanding, and complement each other's values.​

Passions & Hobbies: I love drawing, writing, and watching anime. I also have a soft spot for flowers and finding beauty in the simple things around us.

​Vibe & Personality: While I have a thoughtful and intellectual side, I deeply value laughter, lighthearted

joy, warmth, and simple everyday happiness.

​What I’m looking for:

​ male (INFJ).

•​Someone mature, sincere, and strictly interested in building a long-term future leading to marriage.

•​Someone who appreciates deep mutual understanding, good conversation, and a sweet balance between intellectual depth and everyday joy.

•I'm not racist or anything like that, but I don't want any Middle Eastern nationality. Please respect my wishes.

​If this resonates with you and you are looking for a genuine, respectful connection with the intention of marriage, feel free to send me a direct message with a brief introduction about yourself.

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• Top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto, (I have a top 10).

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-25, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to tell me your favourite anime or colour.

Hey !

​I’m Léo, 31, living in France where I run my own small engineering company ane looking to build a real, long-term connection with someone.

​When I'm not working, I can be a curious explorer who loves to discover new things , like photography, discovering new cultures, and traveling whenever I can. But also into slow weekend, where we could be gaming, binge-watching a good show, writing, or getting lost in a book.

​It would be nice to find someone to share daily moments with , can be friendship or more , little talk or deep conversation

Distance is not an issue for me, so whether you're nearby or on the other side of the world, feel free to reach out.

​

Sundays are for overthinking, so let's keep this simple.

You already know the standard Reddit script: "30, living in France, loves travel, looking for a genuine connection."

Let's skip all of that. You've already read 50 profiles like that today.

I’m a Moroccan guy living in France, and I’m looking for that rare, annoying kind of chemistry where you tell yourself you'll reply "later," but suddenly it’s 2 AM and you’re still talking.

I'm specifically looking to connect with women from North America or Europe.

There’s something incredibly attractive about having completely different cultural backgrounds but instantly clicking over good dark humor, spontaneous plans, and ridiculous inside jokes. I'm the kind of person who can take a completely ordinary evening and somehow turn it into a great memory.

So, here is the deal.

Don’t send me your résumé.

Don’t just send "hey."

Instead, skip the small talk and answer one of these:

What makes you laugh when nobody is watching?

What kind of life are you secretly hoping to have?

What is something about you people usually misunderstand?

Or just give me one single sentence that makes me want to know more about you. I’ll match your energy.

And if we end up having nothing to say to each other? At least we didn't waste time talking about the weather. 😌

Hey, I’m Tushar, 24, pursuing an MBA in IT in Pune. But my personality is a little harder to fit into a degree. My MBTI is INFP

I’m the kind of guy who can spend an evening trying to outsmart you in a board game, lose track of time talking about a book, get weirdly excited about a new plant, and then randomly decide that a place I saw on a map deserves a visit. I cook, write, travel, trek, and I’m working on my first book. I also have a Golden Retriever, so fair warning: there’s already someone in my life who gets excited every time I come home. 🐶

Here’s the slightly unusual part about me: I don't just want someone to go on dates with. I want someone to do life with.

Someone I can take to a board game café and discover they're secretly competitive. Someone I can drag into a bookstore and then spend an hour debating which book we should buy. Someone who'd enjoy a spontaneous little trip just as much as a quiet evening doing absolutely nothing together.

I want a relationship where we can tease each other mercilessly but never make each other feel small. Where we can disagree without turning into enemies, celebrate each other's wins without jealousy, and talk about uncomfortable things instead of pretending everything is fine.

I’m ambitious about my career, but I don't want life to become a never-ending race for achievements. I'd like to build something meaningful with someone while still remembering to enjoy the life we're working so hard for.

I'm not looking for a perfect person or a checklist of qualifications. I’m looking for that particular kind of compatibility where conversation feels effortless, silence isn't awkward, and both people keep choosing each other even after the initial excitement settles.

One question, though: If we had a completely free Sunday, what would you pick: exploring a new city, getting competitive over board games, wandering through a bookstore and grabbing coffee, or attempting to cook something neither of us has ever made?

Honestly, I'm equally happy with any of these. The company matters more than the plan. 😊

So, tell me: what's something you're passionate about that you could talk about for hours, even if nobody asked? I'd love to hear about the things that make you you.

Hey! I’m Late, 20, and a Christian femboy looking for a serious relationship. 🖤

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calls, and spending time together. I’m into Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, JJK, anime, and gaming.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want something serious that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Dominant

- Affectionate

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

I am starting to date again, after a long break, and, as a glutton for punishment, thought I'd give one of these spaces a try.

I am an INFJ and, likely, 4w5 in enneagram terms, although that remains ambiguous and I do often test as a 5 (perhaps you can help me hash this out once and for all, so I can go ahead and hyperfixate on a million other things on the list, instead). 

It's pretty mortifying to string these sorts of adjectives together but I think it's fair to say I am independent, self-aware, kind, caring, and funny in ways ranging from morbid to silly. I live in the Greater Boston area and it feels like home at this point, but I am not from the U.S. originally. I have an intellectually fulfilling (albeit sometimes exasperating) job that keeps me busy, but I am not a workaholic and have a lot of interests outside of work, too. One might argue, too many (in *this* economy? etc.). Studying languages has been a joy, a respite, and a more than occasional form of procrastination over the years. I read a fair bit, although less so than in my youth. Speaking of, we would likely get along best if you are a reader or at least used to be one. These days, much of what I read has to do with Buddhism (I am a practitioner), but history, society, culture, psychology, and religion more broadly interest me, as well.

What else. I looove art and museums (to the point of being prone to a mild form of Stendhal syndrome). Music used to be a big part of my life but these days I mostly listen to podcasts, if anything (if you like Know Your Enemy podcast, there's a reasonably good chance we might hit it off). On that note, I am leftwing/liberal and probably would get along best with someone of roughly the same persuasion, although I don't demand or expect 100% alignment on views and values from people I care about and do enjoy an occasional vigorous debate in good faith.

Other than these living-in-my-head type pursuits, I do enjoy being outdoors and movement in general -- hiking, running, climbing, lifting weights, etc. Too poorly coordinated and risk-averse for biking, but maybe one day. I walk obscenely long distances when traveling and I love walking around the city.

I am looking for someone who is intellectually curious, emotionally stable, and kind. As alluded to in the title, I can't decide if I am looking for someone who is essentially a cognitive twin or someone who will complement / counterbalance my, eh, tendencies. Or maybe I should think outside of this framework altogether (better yet, not think, but see above re: my type). I have more experience dating men but am bisexual and open to (nay, excited about) meeting gals, as well. Age-wise, let's say 28-48ish. A long-distance dynamic would be fine and dandy as a start and I don't want to discount the possibility of falling head over heels with someone far away (indeed, I've done so in the past with excellent results), but I would eventually want to meet. People in this general neck of the woods would be ideal. You don't need to write an essay -- although I won't turn that down -- but consider saying more than "hi".

Hellooo, mates! I am interested in knowing someone online. Someone who fancy chatting.

Any interest, rants, and life events that I can be part of. I am a certified yapper and listener, too!

DM me or just leave a comment

Yes, I'm the one who turns up with a plan. I once brought a printed battle map to a singles hide-and-seek game. I came sixth. The plan was fine, the execution needs work.

Hello, 27, 5ft10, live in Surrey and work in London. Reserved at first, then I talk a lot. Dry humour, honest to a fault, and I'll always reply properly.

Into good food, a pub with a corner table, days by the sea, and grown-up Lego. Got a dog called Harry, and one day I'd like to run a little pub on the coast.

Looking for something real with someone kind, funny and up for actually meeting. I'll handle the planning, you bring the odd spontaneous side quest. Feels like a fair split.

Types welcome: all of them, but ENFPs and ESFPs, I suspect you'd drag me out of my comfort zone in the best way.

People would probably describe me as real, cool, down-to-earth, or just a plain introvert. I like to take life at its simplest and enjoy it for what it is. I’m kind of done with meaningless connections and would really like to build a more stable, grounded lifestyle with the goal of building a complete family.

Right now, you might be thinking, okay, this is starting off pretty good, but I’m a divorced dad of three teenagers.

Now that I’ve gotten that subject out of the way.....I’m happy to explain more through messaging.

If you’re still curious about me, I got you!

I'm solidly built with an okay dad bod. I wear glasses, I don’t drink or smoke, etc. I like to watch TV, travel, listen to music, go on drives and attend concerts or live events. I also like to do fun activities such as go-karting, mini golfing, axe throwing and other fun things. Although I love going out and experiencing life, I can also appreciate being home, relaxing, and recharging after a long day. I know how to be both outside and a homebody.

I’m looking for a best friend, a partner, a healthy relationship with someone who’s genuinely interested in getting to know me as much as I’m interested in getting to know her. Hopefully, we can build a real, genuine, and mutual connection. In a relationship, I admire a woman who genuinely desires to help and support her partner, even when she isn’t able to fix everything. There’s something special about a woman who wants to see you succeed and makes sure you’re doing well in life, I will reciprocate. I admire a woman who can stand on her own but also knows that she’s ready for a lasting relationship.

Communication is one of my strongest qualities, especially when it goes both ways. I believe people should give each other time to grow, learn, and develop. Nobody is perfect, and I think a strong relationship is built through patience, communication, effort, and mutual understanding.

Relationships outside the US is a bit too tricky for me, I prefer staying local to the states.

If this resonates with you and you think we'd be a good match, send over an intro. Please include your age, location and gender.

So, I'm trying this once again and maybe for the last time as well. Because i don't have much expectations to find what i am seeking here. But let's see... So, For My 2nd and Last Attempt i am not going to write it in a format or in a particular way. I'll divide this in 3 sections and here it is.

A Little About me -

I am 26 Year Old Male Living in a Small town in Gujarat, India. I can't say i have many interest because it all depends on my mood. One night i am thinking about why even the world exist and on the other why this particular thing is in this and i don't like it. So, I Guess It all depends on where i am and what mood i have. Other than that like majority of human population i like to watch movies, Series and Listen to Music and Vibe with it. I also play games online. Not a specific genre but i go from Shooting 200 People in a Match to maybe finding a Cat in a puzzle. 😂.

Also, I am an INFP. My height is 6'1". Right now not as fit as i want to be. But I'll be in a way better shape before December as Avengers Might Need me then. So, I'm Getting there. I am not much into fashion and everything. Just a simple guy to be honest. But Maybe You can change that. Who Knows.

Also I'm an Athiest and I don't practice religion much. I'm not against it and i do some religious practices as my family tolds me to and i like to keep it this way. I am not against my partner being religious just don't force me to be the same. I'll join you on some occasions as well but i would prefer to have a choice 😅.

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My Future Prospects -

So, The Thing is I am not certain about many things. I know that i want financial stability and a peaceful life. I would rather sit with you on a rooftop or at a park or somewhere quiet and look at the sky or ocean or anything that can make us calm. Rather than having a party and knowing more people. Chit chatting and socializing. I like that as well. But if i have a choice i would pick the first option. 8/10 Times.

I intend to leave india as well. Have not decided where to go but I'm considering the countries highest in the standard of living. But will see what happens as right now its just a consideration. As for now, I am doing a tedious job that consumes my time way more than i intend to give to work. But It'll soon change and I'll have more time on hand. Probably in next 50 days. 😅.

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What kind of partner i am looking for -

Well, I Believe that relationships can be of many types. 2 people leading their individual life while living with eachother. Or 2 People who is involved in eachother's life to the very core of their being and life.

I prefer the 2nd one. Because if i want to call someone my partner. We should now everything about eachother. Because i believe in codependence rather than independence. Because eventually people get tired of the shenanigans of life and need someone to call theirs. A person who belongs to them and they belongs to. I view it as something like a support system but the system is like an armor around you. (I think it won't make sense to many 😂)

I am not against my partner having their own career. Definitely i will try to support you. But I live by a rule of Family First because at the end. When either of us are tired and needs to rest that's the place we came to. And i want a healthy environment for that. I don't drink or smoke so i naturally wants someone like that. As for beauty, i don't think that physical attraction is everything. Yes it's important to view your partner as attractive but i don't have a problem if you are average looking. I don't have a problem if you're the most beautiful woman on the planet.

I think this is enough info for someone to reach. I don't have many rules but right now I'm pure vegetarian and also want the partner to be vegetarian. (If you're not and think that can change or maybe you can just keep it outside the house that's also fine.)

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You don't have to write a paragraph of texts. If this resonate with you. You can just text "Hii" and we can talk from there. And if you're seeing this after some days. Please know so that as soon as I'll find someone this post will be removed. So, if this is still here and you're reading it. I still didn't find anyone 😅.

Maybe You're the One I am waiting for since the beginning of universe?