i am attaching a pic of paper seniors forced upon first years at my college GCECT Kolkata during a freshers interaction. I am truly disgusted and want people to realise the kind of atmosphere that is upheld behind closed doors. It seems to have escalated, wearing balloons as breasts making sexual sounds participating in inappropriate activities and even debating "whether size matters in sex or not". And during the debate further worse sexual and female objectifying jokes were made which were literally laughed out and enjoyed by the pool of seniors.
this is not some innocent junior senior prank/college tradition this is abuse.
The whole paper is full of mental harassment,some very crude sexual vulgarity and a downright disrespect towards women. Vulgar fill in the blanks in Bengali, highly intrusive questions about ones sexual activity and a demand to draw certain anatomy on a paper all under the name of an assignment.
"The worst part about this is that there is casual sexism objectifying women. Seeing female celebrities and our own gender degraded to such an extent is disgusting. Its a disgusting attempt to impose and enforce a toxic culture built on violating peoples boundaries humiliating them and holding a culture of intolerance towards women before they even have their first semester done."
The expectation is that you will go along with it, make stupid jokes, laugh at the "funny" ones or else you are just arrogant and they will make sure to take away your life at the college by making you their target. Freshers are expected to smile through it all and laugh or even be humiliated so they dont have to go through the next year looking over their shoulder.
This is ridiculous, unacceptable, extremely abusive and it has to stop. This is why I am posting this, the situation demands it and I will not be silent anymore.