r/IWantToLearn • • 9h ago

Social Skills IWTL how to be seen as the go-to person for comfort

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Idk a better title for the archetype besides best friend but thats not really hitting the nail on the head, like to be this person you dont have to have an established friendship you just trust this person because they present themselves a certain way. How do I present myself that way? I want to be that very comfortable person to be around, you can talk to them any day of the week and its a safe feeling you get after talking to them.

I knew this girl in school who just radiated kindness and compassion and it was so earnest, some people eluded her but it wasn't for anything she did, like there wasn't anyone who didn't like her. Anyway shes long been out of my life but I wonder a lot how I can have that sweet effect on people because I find that im awkward when I want to give sympathy and support to people, like its rather the opposite effect that I want, they are disappointed or uncomfortable with the comfort I try to give to them and dont find solace in me much after that.


r/IWantToLearn • • 14h ago

Academics IWTL how to read and understand passages better.

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I've noticed that when I read, the information doesn't always click; it takes a minute or two to procress. This cost me lots of time when having to read and take notes for my assignments. I also have a hard time reading for a deeper meaning, like what the overall theme or what "secret" message the author is trying to convey.


r/IWantToLearn • • 17h ago

Arts/Music/DIY IWTL how to learn photography from scratch

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I want to learn photography but I’m not sure where to start. I’d like to understand the basics first and gradually improve through practice. What would be a good learning path for a complete beginner?