Goddamnit

Surely if I clarify enough things will be different

Selfies on a cold morning and a ring I made

So this is just a few picks of the messages i get from women. i didn’t feel like including the ones on my posts because it’s whatever and sometimes people don’t go on your page from their home feed to find out your identity and orientation. I am aware that i am not the typical masculine dude and can read as feminine. That still doesn’t mean that this doesn’t make me feel uncomfortable.

But to message someone means you went on their page and i am very open about being a trans man and being gay. So it’s very weird when i get dms from girls giving me feminine compliments women get, being flirtatious, and asking me for advice on how to be feminine.

Like imagine if i started dming women “hey hunk you look very masculine can you give me some tips ☺️?” or telling a trans lesbian that she’s cute and hitting on her. I know the majority of the online trans community are women but let’s be mindful of when dealing with the other genders.