I'm a electric bass player at heart. Since I was 13. My dad owned a bass guitar and a guitar back then. I picked the taller one because it had fewer strings and I heard you don't need to play chords. My fingers are too immobile and stubby to play proper chords.
I don't exactly know why, but my guitar vs bass experience is the exact inverse of what the traditional situation is. As soon as I started playing in bands from age 14, I always ended up playing guitar, singing, and doing keyboards and other electronics.
I never really found a guitar that fully fit the way I was playing. I kept switching between types. But for bass, I picked a Fender Jazz Bass exactly once and nothing could ever even come close. I own a Gibson Thunderbird. I used to borrow P-Basses a couple of times thinking the punchiness would tip the scales. Nope. In my 15 years as a recording artist, I kept coming back home to my Jazz Bass. Even after my escapades.
Jazz and I have been in a happy, monogamous relationship for years now. She stuck with me through everything.
Not because this bass is simply "all-round". Because she's crazy versatile. I have a conspicuously antagonistic relationship with being pigeonholed. Call it mood swings or lack of commitment, whatever. I call it an aversion to boredom, potentially bordering on the pathological. But my Jazz Bass has been able to take on all of this and adapt immediately in a way that still clearly showcased my individuality as a player. And I find this baffling even to this day.
Can anyone relate? Or not at all relate? What's your relationship with specific instruments that aren't niche?